jerking buddies

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  1. trentnyc08

    trentnyc08 New Member

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    so when i was growing up i had a few friends that we would jerk off every now and then. I would have to say i have jacked with 3 or 4 of my guy friends growing up. it was totally a non gay experiance. did you guys ever have the same experiance?

    it has been since high school but have been thinking it would ba cool to have a friend to chill with and beat off together. i have found though that most people are not ok with this. and the ones that are willing want to fool around.

    just want to have a few beers and rub one out with a few chill dudes. is this odd to want this in my mid 20's
     
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    i've done that with 3 friends separately when i was younger. you're o.k in my book. but, in your mid 20's you should expect people who like that to want to fool around.
     
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    I'm around that same age and that seems normal to me. No big deal. Doesn't mean you wanna go up their ass or anything. A few beers and and some stroking never hurt anyone. :biggrin1:
     
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    Not odd at all!

    I also enjoyed jerking with my friends, and with three of them we still do it from time to time.

    Clearly there is no contact between us, but still it isa very cose experience, to share only with real friends: I mean, you expose your intimacy!

    It is also a nice way to compare.
     
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    I completely understand. I miss that lots now that i am older and it does not happen any more. When i was younger I had a couple friends that would jackoff with me. Never anything else and we just went about our day after it was all done.

    Maybe one day.... :)
     
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    Not at all. Trouble is, as you get older, the opportunities decrease drastically and - as you say - when they do happen you find that the guy concerned actually wants a lot more! :mad:

    A few beers, a chat and a wank is fine with me.
     
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    ohh... i never had this kind of masturbation experience.
    but.. actually.. i would like to have...
    but seems tht i will have nothing... if i ll be sooo.. shy.. or i dont know wat happening with me then..=((..
    so.. i think.. tht.. jerking with buddies.. havent to be so weird and strange.. coz... noone.. is not going to fuck.. just jerking.. rite?
    (i thinks so)

    =)0
     
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    Not weird at all. I'd love to have a jo buddy again....would be fun.
     
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    Heh heh. Well, I think most teenage guys do this in the throes of puberty, and being in your 20's, you're, what, ten years out of practice?

    I don't have a problem with it. I have had maybe a couple of jerking buddies. It's just good to know that if you have to take care of some wood, you can throw on some porn and handle your business. I also think that having a jacking buddy can help express some underlying exhibitionism, too. I like being well hung; I'm not afraid to show it off on my own terms. The only grief is that it's hard to meet people. Nowadays, seems like you have to be opportunistic or really lucky or use the Internet to reach out to people in a "safer" way, y'know.
     
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    I think it's a great idea... nothing unusual about you interest/desire in this at all.
     
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    thanks guys... if you guys ever in ny and wanna beat off we whould get together
     
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    Unfortantly by your 20's your supposed to be grown up and pass that kind of thing. I would love to do something like that with friends, male and female but i just know it will never happen
     
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    yeah i did it with a few dudes i think about 5 different dudes, just two of us when i happen. it was when i was younger, i did enjoy it.
     
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    I know what you mean. Once everyone else is married and/or serious, it's way more rare. :(
     
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