Good evening everyone, I'm hoping that we can converse on this topic of downlow men aka bisexuality. But before we start lets have the ground rules: 1. Respect everyone that replies and be respectful on how you reply back. If someone says something on purpose to get a raise, please take the high road! It's easier being an azz, it takes work being a class (act)! 2. If someone doesn't know what you are talking about, then by all means explain some more. We all have our on mindsets, we are thinking out the box,we need the collective different mindsets of everyone. I don't want group think so it's okay to think and share something that we are missing or don't see. 3. If you come a cross a link or a site, please post it. Alot of you know me as the informational finder, but I don't want folks to wait for the weekend for me to find things. LOL! So just post it please. So this is why I'm writing this. I've come a crossed a very scary thing on youtube. This guy is selling a dvd to women on how to tell if their men are on the "down low". This is from NY times best selling author JL King Here's video 1 YouTube - Top 10 Signs of Down Low Behavior and more... and here's video 2 YouTube - Top 10 Signs of Down Low Behavior (II) You'll be amazed at the other videos on youtube I've found about this issue and alot of it is not pretty, but please lets focus on JL King because he's actually selling witch hunting material! Now before anyone says that black folks can't tell their own DL story in a nice romatic way Brokeback Mountain, there's a wonderful movie call the DL Chronicles and I've found you guys to watch it. Here's the link: Watch The DL Chronicles Online - Full Episodes of The DL Chronicles & More TV Shows Online with blinkx Remote It's broken into 4 parts, different stories (the thug one is not my favorite I just didn't get it ) but see it for yourself. I've also found a great blog: BI LIKE ME (ya'll know I bring in the visionals!) And in all actuality downlow is the informal word for bisexuality so it does include anyone and everyone from any and every race and gender. The question I have is it different for black men to actually have a sexual perference of choice? Are we never allowed to venture off or come back from sexual ventures without shame. Is it easier for white men do it? Does other men of color have the same issue. How about women? Is it easier for you?