Hey Hungdad, if practically anyone was jacking next to your big piece of meat, they'd look relatively small too! I assume your jo bud is also more of a straight guy and therefore not as used to seeing guys' erect dicks side by side with their own. You need to be very upfront about telling him that he should not be using your endowment as a 'norm' - you are probably in the 98th percentile. Here are fairer ways to consider whether he is 'big enough':
- Does his dick bring him pleasure?
- Does it bring others' pleasure (and, if you can admit it to him, that means YOU need to share that fact as well)?
- Does he judge women only by the measurement of their busts or look at the 'total package', including overall proportions and how great they are in bed? If he analyzes how HE judges others he is attracted to, he'll quickly realize that others are probably using a more generous and flattering approach in judging him.
I agree with Spinner, this type of low self-confidence is unfortunately tied to maturity. While his dick has little chance of getting bigger at age 20, his self-confidence is going to continue to swell in size, especially with some helpful guidance from someone who is more mature and can help encourage him to get over relative size differences.
Good luck - you're a heck of a guy to try and be of assistance to your mate. And, in my opinion, based only on the photo, it looks like your buddy is quite good in size, and his body looks like it is awesome.
