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Hey straight guys who are married or have a gf and have a JO bud, how’d you find a bud? How’s it work out? Does your wife/gf know?

Would love to have a JO bud, not sure how to discretely make it happen. Any advice would be appreciated.
 

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I’ve jo a few times with guys but have never had a regular jerk off buddy.
I’m also str8 married. Would like a buddy who’s cool with getting naked and just chill while we stroke our cocks. But like you, not sure how to find someone.
 

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I’ve jo a few times with guys but have never had a regular jerk off buddy.
I’m also str8 married. Would like a buddy who’s cool with getting naked and just chill while we stroke our cocks. But like you, not sure how to find someone.

Maybe your wife can introduce you to one of her friends' husbands.
 

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I’ve jerked off with a friend. This was when we just started college tho. It was his idea. He found my porn dvd and insisted on watching it. Next thing I know he pulls his dick out and starts jerking off. I joined because it was more weird just sitting there not also jerking off.
 

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I’ve jo a few times with guys but have never had a regular jerk off buddy.
I’m also str8 married. Would like a buddy who’s cool with getting naked and just chill while we stroke our cocks. But like you, not sure how to find someone.
On KIK man, enjoy stroking with another man. Hit me up there, Keith8c
 

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have have several jerk buds, either met in bar after being horny and no luck hooking up with a girl, one at a gym, and a couple on craigslist. usually two horny dudes, after a few beers, is a recipe for finding a bud to stroke with. To answer third question, i have a gf. she does not know that I'm into it.
 

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I'm confounded by the perceived allusiveness. I've never found it particularly challenging to invite a bro I'm hanging with to watch some porn together and rub one out, nor can I recall anyone ever passing. So is it a problem of not having friends? Or just not knowing how to broach the subject?

If the latter... and if you're really hung up on doing this.... next time you got a bud over hanging out (or a roommate?), put on the movie The Divide. It's a total guy, end-of-the-world, psychological flick. You might drop into the conversation before hand some comment like, "Fuuuck. I've got the worst blue balls today. I haven't nutted in like 48 hrs." You know... just tee that shit up. Then, about 3/4 through The Divide (spoiler alert), there's this fucking awesome sex scene. Real porn style shit. When that ish comes on, just make a big deal of it. "Shiiit. This just got hot." Pull on your dick through your shorts while you do it.

Then, when your ready (don't even have to wait for the movie to end if you don't want), just say "Fuck dude. I really need to rub one out. Mind if I put on some real porn?"

Another spoiler: he won't say no.

Then from there, just be super casual and cool about the whole thing. Assume he's going to jack off with you. Throw a box of tissues on the coffee table. Ask him if he likes lube with his porn. Be jokey about it. Grab him another beer. Then, after you've put on some skin flicks, you just start playing with your dick through your shorts a little bit... eventually, just pulling that cock out and slowly stroking it.

It's no rocket science and it's not taboo. Just be the person you want to be, do the things you want to do, and the universe will reward you. You might be surprised too after initiating a mutual jo once just how quickly your friend becomes the initiator after that.
 

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As a straight guy, I don’t even get wanting a jo buddy. Why would a guy want to rub one out with another guy watching?
Different strokes for different folks! Not every guy does, but some do!
 

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How’d you find a bud?

Would love to have a JO bud, not sure how to discretely make it happen. Any advice would be appreciated.

Would be cool if there was something dudes could wear like a silicone wrist band that secretly means "down to stroke". Wear it while doing your favorite activity, spot another wrist band, make a bud. Now you have a bud to go play golf with AND "play golf". Talk about practicing your stroke.
 

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Never needed a man for my sexual needs.
Once on high school we were on one of my friends house who had a gadget to decode the porn cable channels. One couldn’t helped and started touching himself one simple get to the bathroom and it was over.
Young and stupid we thought.
But now as adults I someone did that in front of me it would jeopardize our friendship, if it survives I don’t think it would be the same.
An app could help you find someone willing to share that experience with you.
Please don’t be the guy who stands 3 feet’s from the urinal without peeing.
 
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