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  1. Kassokilleri2ff

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    I joined fling.com cuz im so desperate to find sombody, almost anybody as long as they will have me. But the town im in is not a good place for an athiest to live so its hard for me to meet people who wont think i worship the devil or somthing stupid.

    anyways! does anybody have any tips on how to increase my success with a dating site. I dont know what questions to ask other than that since im not experienced with these. So uhh yea, any tips you can think of from your own experience.

    oh oh! i thought of one, are there any women on here who are subscribed to such a thing, and what in a mans profile makes you want to give them a chance? lol.

    so yea. tips go! gogo! lol
     
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    I've gained a lot of experience on this, tho I'm not on "fling.com" so that may be different, but here's my advice:

    First, have great photos. You need at least 1 close-up and one full-length shot (of your body...not the kind that's posted here. lol). Maybe a few showing you doing something fun.

    Also, I wouldn't say "I'm looking for almost anyone who'll have me." lol Write a profile that describes your interests and personality and ideally what you'd want in a girl. Feel free to be funny and clever (if you're naturally funny and clever). I just read one that was like a real estate ad, where the guy listed himself almost like a property, which was cute. Anything like that makes you stand out.

    Make sure your profile is not misspelled or full of grammatical errors. That make us think you're sloppy/lazy and just don't care. Stay positive - don't bash your ex girlfriend or say anything negative about women in general.

    Above all, though, be honest. Women hate showing up and having you not be as represented. It won't get you very far.
     
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    Absolutely important is to get some pictures of you taken looking very well groomed and dressed. Look your best.

    Second of all, make yourself sound like a fun person to be around. Don't talk about your looks or how funny you are, just make yourself sound like fun.

    Thirdly, represent your dream girl as what you expect at a minimum. People don't actually want to be with someone who is settling for the booby prize, they want to be with someone who has high standards.

    Finally, be a man, be freely admitting to the fact you want to be with a woman, but don't push overt sex of the "OMFG UR SO HOT I DO U IN DA ASS" style . Use a little bit of subtle innuendo, it goes a long way.
     
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    Couldn't agree more with either of these points... applies to women as well... nothing more of a turn off than a woman who "TYPEZ LIKE DIZ".

     
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    Oh yeah, I forgot to add: Do NOT use a photo of you with another girl in the it (unless she's your 10 yr old sister). Especially don't try to photoshop an ex girlfriend out of a photo...leaving her arms around you or her hair in the photo...that's an automatic "delete" for me.
     
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    Cool ty for tips ^^
     
  7. Kassokilleri2ff

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    Has anyone joined fling.com? There are so many beautiful sexy ass women on there from texas, that im inclined to believe that all those profiles are a bunch of fake porn advertisers. But i dont realy see anything leading to a site or anything so im not sure, maybe theres just tons of hot women who for some reason need to join a dating site to get laid. Wich i think is wierd, because it should be easy as hell for women to get laid especially if they are hot. hmmmmmm.
     
  8. JMeister

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    sweetnhot,

    if your avatar is you, you shouldn't have any problem attracting men.

    Kassokilleri2ff

    Fling.com is bs. How do I know. As a lark i signed up but didn't join. Within two weeks I had 20 emails etc. from women that clearly didn't even read my profile based on the requirements I put in the profile.

    If you want to find a woman at an online dating site look at the legit ones like eharmony, match, yahoo personals , plenty of fish (free), fitness singles, etc.
     
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    Well, thanks. It is me. But just because a woman is attractive doesn't mean she has a rewarding love life. I mean, we can get laid...but not necessarily by the guys we want to lay us. lol And it's not usually all about that for most women anyway. We're looking for good partners as well. I've been online dating for about a year and half, and I've had a lot of interest, and a lot of dates, but haven't met too many men I really felt were that compatible.

    BTW, I've always heard TX women are really hot, so maybe those are real photos, but I also hear - repeatedly - from the guys I meet for online dates about how many times women misrepresent themselves. They're often overweight or the photos are 20 yrs old - so before you go out w/anyone, ask to see more photos, especially if she doesn't have many posted. And ask her, point blank, if she looks like her photos. This seems to be much worse for guys than women. Most guys I've met have looked like their photos, but they're usually pleasantly surprised that I do.

    Good luck and have fun.
     
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    Made my first contact and it was some bitch trying to sell me her webcam site thingy where you pay to watch them strip or somthing. Im mad, fuckin bastards. :(
     
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    Well, that's on fling.com? What do u expect? Try a more legit site. Yahoo or Match.com. Plentyoffish.com (that's free).
     
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    If you look at the terms and conditions small print I'll bet they say something like "We don't guarantee you will meet anyone directly,some of the profiles are employees of the site and are for entertainment purposes only."
    I wouldn't give any of these places my credit card details.
     
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    I did match.com once, and ended up with a guy for a really long time. It was my first and only date off a place like that. Ive never heard of fling though, it sounds a little shady
     
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    I've had good luck with Match and Yahoo. Nice dates. Real guys. A lot of them have small penises though. lol

    Too bad this site doesn't have a dating area. At least everything is up front here.
     
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    ?
    There is a "Large Penis Personal Ads" section.
     
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    Oh, thanx. I'll check it out.
     
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