Guy-jin
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Judging a man's performance.
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Are you talking about Rommette wanting guys to bang her through the wall and if they can't, they are lame in some way?
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Hey.
If you can't get it up on demand at any hour of the day and use it to demolish at least three story buildings, you are lame.
Drifterwood,
Have you not ever had sex with a woman who was amazingly hot, and not just in appearance? Have you ever not had sex with a woman who was pretty ordinary? I certainly have! My best sexual memories are of three or four women who were sexual powerhouses. My best sexual performances were with those women, and the more they turned me on the more I turned them on, and so it happened each time.
The converse were the women who were passive, and I didn't get much out of the experience, nor did they. They may have said I was a lousy lover, but it wasn't through want of trying to make it special. Good sex takes two.
Have you not ever had sex with a woman who was amazingly hot, and not just in appearance? Have you ever not had sex with a woman who was pretty ordinary? I certainly have! My best sexual memories are of three or four women who were sexual powerhouses. My best sexual performances were with those women, and the more they turned me on the more I turned them on, and so it happened each time.
The converse were the women who were passive, and I didn't get much out of the experience, nor did they. They may have said I was a lousy lover, but it wasn't through want of trying to make it special. Good sex takes two.
No I didn't specifically. But I could use it as an example. She has a sexual preference that she expects from men, when they don't deliver, she thinks badly of them. If I judged women solely on whether they automatically delivered my sexual preferences, I would have to conclude that 80% were lousy fucks.
And that is the point that I am making about our sexual culture, it is still generally seen to be the man who is expected to deliver, to perform. I am certainly not saying that this is true of all women, and I know that many men are more than happy to step up to the plate to do their damnest, I have that Tee shirt.
Or three :biggrin1:
Good sex does take commitment for all partners involved to make it that way. I think though that complaining about women who might judge your performance is lame. Many guys here want to feel like they are gods here and it isn't going to happen. I used to want to feel the same but really its an unrealistic expectation. You will probably end up with someone who thinks you are amazing before they even sleep with you, because they want you for who you are. Your tool and your "sexual greatness" is either a bonus or something that only exists because of how highly that partner thinks of you. Yea one night stands and fuck buddies are there to stroke your ego, but you won't and can't win them all, regardless of what you do and your dick size.
