Tender wrote:
i was 18 when i became pregnant with my unplanned son, Aaron.
it is not the age persay but the maturity level that determines a good parent.
and the support of their family friends, and most of all IMO they are better parents MARRIED.
i would like to challenge your 'waste of space' comment. (nah, that doesnt sound like me atallll )
you have realized that many famous people in history came from 'waste of space' evironments. poverty, broken families and raised on the street taking care of themselves?
a few of those kids turn out to BE something.
it is not ideal circumstances that denotes worth of a person.
And I reply:
This is where I got the idea you had unplanned preganacies, sorry if I'm missing something.
No one said you were alone in the world in your thinking, I specifically stated that most of the str8 world agrees with you!!! I know you can read. I said you are alone HERE on this predominantly GAY site and I don't know why you would spend so much time here, knowing you feel gays are wrong. I still don't. Now you say you have three kids in diapers, a child with autism, and a marriage to save- well that sounds like a full boat without adding unwelcome gay-bashing comments to your already full day. I would think you'd have better use of your very limited free time than to hurt others in a way that is not constructve at all. There should be some places on earth where gay people should be able to be free from bashing, wouldn't you think? How about just the places owned and run by gays, is that fair?
So, Tender, from the bottom of my heart, STFU on your negative posts, it's not "free speech", it's self-gratifying moralizing and no one HERE wants to hear it.