Just 7 months old, and erects!!

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most all of the information on this topic is correct. the only part i find fault with is the fact that a baby boy's erection is only physical.

it has been studied that sexuality is inherent, not learned. both male and female children are born sexual. there are often times babies will rub themselves against their mattresses if placed on their stomachs.

during the brain's most active developemental years, adolesence, these sexual urges are more supressed. the brain is too busy concentrating on the changes going on with speech, muscle control and learning basic motor skills.

as the hormones kick in at puberty, the brain again starts to focus on sexuality.
 

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elyocttam said:
most all of the information on this topic is correct. the only part i find fault with is the fact that a baby boy's erection is only physical.

it has been studied that sexuality is inherent, not learned. both male and female children are born sexual. there are often times babies will rub themselves against their mattresses if placed on their stomachs.

during the brains most active developemental years, adolesence, these sexual urges are more supressed. the brain is too busy concentrating on the changes going on with speech, muscle control and learning basic motor skills.

as the horemones kick in at puberty, the brain agains starts to focus on sexuality.

I understand that there is a statement that is problematic but be careful. I see some Freud, pop psych, developmental psych, and cognitive psych in your argument, which may take you farther than what is scientifically testable or has been actually tested.

Also, there are times when an erection can be purely physical . . . a man in a coma that is not dreaming (short wave sleep) can get "morning wood", which is also purely autonomic. (Actually, morning wood may not actually be sexual at all until men associate erections with sex. Without the association with sex, an erection is just a penis that is hard because there is a lot of blood in it.)

Trying to define when a physical sensation becomes sexual is a rather difficult thing because a child has all the nerves in place for "sexual pleasure" at birth but has not been conditioned to associate these feelings with anything in the real world or imagination, so therefore their pleasure is purely a physical response to a real world stimulus.

Conversely, adult sexuality is not just pleasurable because of physical stimulation, but because of:

- the antipation of pleasure
- conditioned response to certain stimuli, such as smells, tastes, skin stimulation not directly on the genitals, etc.
- the social interaction, whether real or imagined, between partners
- the drive towards finality in ones own satisfaction (orgasm)
- the procreative drives that are not fully present until adolescents because the physical capacity is simply not present
- etc. etc. etc.

There are also several other physiological aspects. The important part is that this new parent gets factual advice at a appropriate depth so that he is reassured that his child is normal. Mixed messages are not good for either the parent or the child. This is not a debate for the sake of debate . . . get it!!!
 

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visceraltuning said:
I understand that there is a statement that is problematic but be careful. I see some Freud, pop psych, developmental psych, and cognitive psych in your argument, which may take you farther than what is scientifically testable or has been actually tested.

Also, there are times when an erection can be purely physical . . . a man in a coma that is not dreaming (short wave sleep) can get "morning wood", which is also purely autonomic. (Actually, morning wood may not actually be sexual at all until men associate erections with sex. Without the association with sex, an erection is just a penis that is hard because there is a lot of blood in it.)

Trying to define when a physical sensation becomes sexual is a rather difficult thing because a child has all the nerves in place for "sexual pleasure" at birth but has not been conditioned to associate these feelings with anything in the real world or imagination, so therefore their pleasure is purely a physical response to a real world stimulus.

Conversely, adult sexuality is not just pleasurable because of physical stimulation, but because of:

- the antipation of pleasure
- conditioned response to certain stimuli, such as smells, tastes, skin stimulation not directly on the genitals, etc.
- the social interaction, whether real or imagined, between partners
- the drive towards finality in ones own satisfaction (orgasm)
- the procreative drives that are not fully present until adolescents because the physical capacity is simply not present
- etc. etc. etc.

There are also several other physiological aspects. The important part is that this new parent gets factual advice at a appropriate depth so that he is reassured that his child is normal. Mixed messages are not good for either the parent or the child. This is not a debate for the sake of debate . . . get it!!!

got it!!!

you just let me know when it is appropriate for me to comment on a post. until then, i'll take all my "psycho-babble" (along with my years of education and research on the topic of human development) and sit in a dark room until you allow me to communicate again.
 

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elyocttam said:
got it!!!

you just let me know when it is appropriate for me to comment on a post. until then, i'll take all my "psycho-babble" (along with my years of education and research on the topic of human development) and sit in a dark room until you allow me to communicate again.

Elyocttam, I believe that you fall in the category of well informed, and I totally respect you as a researcher. Trust me, I can identify, having spent many many hours gathering and coding psych research data in a university psych lab.

However, the healthcare worker in me is very passionate that this parent saught a really inappropriate source for parenting advice for an infant. I hope that your "years of education and research on the topic of human development" might lead you to the same conclusion. Honestly, wouldn't you rather that this parent seek infant parenting advice based on your peer reviewed research publications rather than collective heuristic knowledge of the LARGE PENIS SUPPORT GROUP.

I am not going to belabor the point any longer. If you, in good conscience, want to keep feeding this thread because you believe that it will foster good developmental outcomes, so be it. YOU ARE THE EXPERT!!!

visceraltuning said:
Finally, be careful of the parenting advice requests you bring to the LARGE PENIS SUPPORT GROUP. I have found that many of the members are very informed and enlightened people that do encourge parents to foster healthy attitudes in their children. However, this forum is also an ADULT WEBSITE, which means that it is not well equipt to supply advice for prepubescents.
 

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normal.... after 3 sons... It became a joke... My one son always was there... he ended going to the seminary....