I don't know what has come over me lately... I am having some serious trust issues in my relationship.. but the funny thing is my rational mind knows better, and knows I have no reason to not be trusting. If you see thread http://www.lpsg.org/127174-girls-night-out.html you will get an idea of what I am talking about. My chick is great friends with her ex-fiancee, and I think he is a really cool guy! they go out and do their thing, and it doesn't bother me. The girls night out thing bothered me because I got worried when I didn't get at least get a call or a txt that she was safe, and would be home late. However it did bother me to know that she was having a bunch of guys buy her drinks all night.. believe me free is good... but when her friend told me she had to elbow some guy because he wouldn't keep his hands off my chick, even though she was telling him to fuck off.. that really did piss me off the situation escalated to that level. Of course I would expect guys to hit on her, she is a very attractive girl. But sometimes I think I am totally nuts for feeling that way. I dont want to feel like I am 'possessive' or controlling. I fully want her to go out and have her time with her friends. But that situation made me extremely uncomfortable. And I know I am getting the *censored version of the story. So what do you guys think? Am I a total douche? Damn, I need to get a hold of myself. yikes.