Just a Thought on Penis Size...

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by bigman420, Feb 5, 2009.

  1. bigman420

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    Ok...Like many guys here, whether they like to admit it or not, I originally came to this site because of my own insecurities as an average straight male. I measure around 5.75x5 which I believe would show through from my pictures. But to be honest, I've been paying attention to the posts throughout the many different forums, including the women's issues forum, and I've come to one conclusion: MEN CARE ABOUT PENIS SIZE MORE THAN WOMEN EVER COULD. Seriously, consider the evidence. This site is called the "Large Penis Support Group." The constituents of this site are overwhelmingly men, I would conjecture that the percentage is 90% or higher. Of this high percentage of men, the majority are gay men, and certainly nothing wrong with that. Many of the straight men, I would imagine, find themselves in my boat as being average men with their own insecurities or curiosity. My final conclusion is that not only is it men who care about penis size, but it is mostly gay/insecure guys who care about penis size-not women. Of course there are women here who do care about penis size, and that's fine because we all have different appetites for sex, and, if that's what gets a woman going, most likely there is some individual biological or psychological reasoning behind it. But the severe lack of women on this site must prove that an average man of 5 to 6 inches can more than satisfy a woman. My point is that despite this site being called the "Large Penis Support Group," it is me, as an average male, who has found support and confidence through this site by showing me who penis size REALLY matters to.
     
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  2. D_Maureen Biologist

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    Very well said - and many women can be satisfied without a penis at all...just an observation, not any "auto-biographical" info (wink).
     
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    Very insightful, but I think every man is insecure about his penis size to some extent. Most women aren't too bothered.
     
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    Never have I heard this put more succinctly. Perfect. Men want big dicks for the locker room. Not their partners. (ok in general) I have spent many hours studying this subject. You hit it on the head. I suppose it goes back to that; I have the bigger rolex, my car costs more, my trophy g/f, b/f is better than yours, my kids are going to Harvard, etc. All external whereas in the locker room, those things don't show. Only your dick! MEN!
    There are several friends I to whom I will show your thoughts. Great thread guy.
    Bryan
     
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    Very well said! Chapeau!
     
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    something we knew...

    women care more about their breast's than men... actually men could care less... but there is slightly advantage on bigger breast, same thing about penis size. Wether the person believe it or not, it is there inscribed in our brain.
     
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    I agree with almost everything you say except this part. As a guy who is straight, hung, and secure about his size -- and who has talked with many others like myself through this site over the years -- I can tell you that we DO care about penis size.

    To apply the same (sound) logic you use in noting the small numbers of women on LPSG: If we didn't care, would there be any straight hung guys here?

    Sure, I'm willing to go along with your assumption that gay men may, on average, care more about penis size. But to say that big straight guys don't care about penis size at all, I think, misses the mark by a mile. Most of us take great pride in our proportions, whether quietly or overtly.

    I think most men share something of an irrational obsession with this topic. Men are competitive creatures and penis size is just one of the many axes we use to judge ourselves against others.

    Steve
     
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    I didn't say that staight hung guys didn't care about penis size, I said that the majority of the members of this site are gay and/or insecure guys, which is true. Which leads me to my conclusion that your quoted which is these types of men are who MOST care about penis size. But your comments actually strengthen my point because my ultimate point is that men, regardless of why, and not women are who overwhelmingly care about penis size. You back me up on this by saying that it matters to you as a straight and secure person without even once mentioning women thoughts on the subject in your comments. Furthermore, you said that you've had this conversation with many other like yourself on this site, which I'm assuming are fellow straight secure guys, which once again means that guys are the ones who talk about these things most of the time. So thank you for that. Once again I want to reiterate that I am not judging anybody by these comments, these are just simple and pretty accurate observations I've made from this website.
     
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    Well put, everyone.

    Here's my take on the subject. I came here to try to become more secure in my size. As a gay male with a sex drive to-boot, it's not that i'm obsessed with size...it's that I like penis, and have one, and therefore have to deal with being compared to my partner as well as the people around me- a struggle straight men do not usually face...

    i imagine this is true of most gay men.

    gay guys are no more obsessed than other men, it's just that we're around other penises more, so it's on the mind more.

    i'm certain there are exceptions, but in general, this is my observation.
     
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    and, i think thickness matters more...

    also an observation.
     
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    I found this site because girls kept telling me I was big. So I wanted to know where I would stack up in the big scheme of things compared to other men they had seen or been with and ended up finding this site.
     
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    hmmm. Size matters to the owner or the user?

    Independent of the posts above, my opinion is listed.

    1. Men want a bigger penis, no matter what they already have. It's in our makeup somehow.
    2. Women that you marry invariably say, "you are big enough" Ha. BS. If they married you with whatever package you brought to the deal, they get used to it and would like bigger if you could get them to admit it. They rarely do, but really would agree if you actually built a bigger dick.
    3. Women do not believe you when you say that XYX program can build that bigger dick. First, the actually don't believe it and second is the attention you put to building a bigger dick is interpreted as cheating on them. Sorry, but they feel that way. So, you do PE on the sly. You get bigger. She loves the results and you don't talk about it. Get it?
    4. So, unless you have a supportive wife, keep growing when you can and fuck her silly.

    I speak from experience. GO for it.

    P.S. If your wife is on board and knows you can grow a bigger weenie, get her honest reply on how big you could get before she would say STOPO. Ha.
     
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    It's a guy thing, period...
     
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    yea i just gotta say now that i've had some time to really get into this site I've definitely learned to not be ashamed of having a large member.
     
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    Just my 2 cents thrown in:

    A lot, possibly even most girls/women don't care much about size unless it is an extreme. There are however some who are very into size who are identified as "size queens" which is a term with origins in the gay male community.

    I would guess that most women on this site are probably size queens, or at very least had some curiosity about different sizes. That said I don't think the female community on this site would be an accurate sampling to super-impose onto the general population.

    As a whole, I think the first post is pretty spot on.
     
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    What is being missed here is that the site is the Large Penis Support Group. Yes, posters diverge from the obvious purpose of the site and we all have lots of fun post and reading members random thoughts on sex, relationships, and just about everything else.

    What many members that are average size do not understand is that having a large cock is not the greatest blessing in the world. My experience has been that most women when they are confronted with being penetrated by a very large penis get a little scared the first time. When I was in college it was not unusual to find myself in bed with a women that decided not to continue with sex because she was concerned about taking my size.

    During my teens and twenties I had more partners that insisted on stopping before intercourse than continued through to penetration, and I always understood stop and no to mean exactly that. But do not miss understand me, I would not exchange my big dick for an average one, I have learned to accept the good with the bad, and today I am comfortable in my own skin, and would not change a thing.

    Beyond just the issues related to sex, men with large penises deal with variety of other issues related to their size. I suspect that most average men do not have issues with their cocks hanging in toilet water, or finding underwear that fits and supports a large penis. When I was younger, before Magnum and Large size condoms it was nearly impossible to find a decent fitting rubber. This site has been great for men to explore many of these issues.

    I have talked with average size friends that have said that for them this site is also been helpful to them to make sense of all the cultural crap about big dicks. And that they have become more comfortable with what they have been given. And if men, large, small, or average can learn to be satisfied with their bodies as they are then this site has done provided an excellent service, besides just being entertaining.

    As for the gay, straight, bi, labels can't we just get past the labels. Yes, men like to see big cocks, and I do not believe that has anything to do with sexual orientation. I admit that I am a bit of an exhibitionist and enjoy being looked at. I have been naked all over the world, and it does not matter what culture I am in, I always have a lot of men, and women, checking out my big penis. I think that comes from the fact that men with large penises are vary rare (see the statistics on other threads) and when people see one they can not help but look. And this behavior has little to do with labels.
     
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    Yeah, probably men care about penis size more than (most) women do. But my experience is not the same about orientation... it's straight men who obsess about penis size. Gay men see a lot more cock on average and have a more realistic idea -- or at least a bigger sample size in the flesh -- of what's small, average and big. Interestingly, I've seen a couple of studies that say gay men tend to be slightly larger in the penis department anyway.

    I'd much rather see a beautiful cock than a big cock, though beauty being equal, size makes a bigger impact. As for handling... had some big ones that were nothing short of unwieldy and actually limited some of the fun things I normally like to do. Give me a handsome average or small cock for sucking or jacking, one connected to a guy who is so in tune to his body that he enjoys every second of sex and loves cumming. Fortunately, I'm married to exactly that type of person.

    I grew up well aware that my cock was longer than just about all my friends' cocks, but also aware that I'm much more a shower than a grower so I didn't gloat or draw any conclusions from what I saw. Went through the whole college thing of being known as "long schlong", but I didn't wear the label with any particular pride -- though I suspect some of my fraternity brothers were aching to have the "title". There is a subset of both straight and gay men obsessed with owning, seeing and/or having sex with a large cock, but in my experience more straight men wish they had just one more inch.
     
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    Yes, while it has been said before, it merits repeating: if you were going out with a woman who was a perfect "10" model, it doesn't guarantee great sex. And if she is a dull, mean-spirited person, all the good looks in the world won't keep the relationship together.
     
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    well put original poster - i would add that one of the main roles of pornography is for men to look at other cocks (most porn is very phallocentric). so we have to ask - why do men want to look at other cocks, when they mostly profess to be straight?

    answer 1 - like the guy above said, they are looking for reassurance about their penis because it is taken as the symbol of masculinity, confirmation of status of being a 'real man'. It is however much more liberating to realise that ideas of a 'real man' are hollow, and are more about making men compete against each other, and falsely exagerrating the difference between the sexes.

    answer 2 - men like to look at other cocks, because even if they profess to be straight, they gain pleasure from looking at other cocks. conclusion, nobody is really 100% straight (or gay)....
     
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    I am hoping I am welcome here. I am all gay and so many people only care about my dick and dont see much else.. I could use this group but if me being gay is weird, I wont bother anyone
     
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