Just thought I'd pass along a nice tip that my long term girlfriend and I discovered recently. Even though we have been together for quite sometime - she and I still have issues with my size and her dealing with it from time to time. (Some of the female porn stars I work with from time to time have trouble with my girth as well, so she isn't alone). She is very athletic (cirque performer - ariel fabric, trapeze - and one of the top pole dance instructors in the world) and she has always been tight. She seems to be doing kegels with all her movements to so that doesn't help. Actually when we first started going out and she saw my cock for the first time - she grabbed her vibrator from her night stand and out it up against my cock and said, "You want to put that where?" She is very "deep" which is nice, but I am extremely thick as well and long so it can be a problem. Well over time she has become more used to it - but when we go for a while with out having sex - one of us out of town or sick etc. - she tends to get really tight again and we kinda have to start all over getting her used to my cock. Just the other night, we were getting ready to have sex after having some off time and she was lamenting having to go through "stretching out" period again. Well she had a bit of a brainstorm. She tends to have a few meds around to help her body recover from the strain she puts it through on a daily basis. So she decided to take a muscle relaxer. She figured that the pussy is made up of muscle as well - so it might help. She took a soma fifteen minutes ahead of "fun time" and let me tell you - it worked like a charm. It was much easier for the initial insertion - and she got used to the girth much quicker. Also it seemed to have no effect on her having orgasms either. After our nice long session, she claimed that soma was now going to be a part of future foreplay and a requirement of any future return from a sexual hiatus. I joked that I was going to share her discovery with the LPSG board and she laughed. She said just that if any of you ladies out here try it to make sure you know your dosage. She is used to strong muscle relaxers because of her athletic career. Just make sure you don't use too much - you may end up with a more accommodating pussy - but you might just fall asleep too. And that's no fun...Unless you are in are into that kind of thing. Just some info for the ladies out here and for the guys that might have similar problems.