I started this post by saying that this has happened before and I am not talking about the same person. The first time I did exactly what Matthew suggested. I straight out told the guy I was interested in him and did not appreciate his constant staring and following me around. It was worthless. A few days later, I found the guy sitting in his car in the parking lot where I work. It was a definite stalking case. I left that gym and went elsewhere. I saw him a few other times after that but he eventually got the message. The point is I had to leave the gym to get rid of him.
The second time I decided I am not leaving the gym. I was a little more forceful. Something about twisting his head off and stuffing him in a locker. Okay, maybe a bit too forceful. It was effective, I no longer see him at the gym.
So I am trying to improve how I handle these situations. I have learned that talking didn't work and agressive intimidation did but could cause other legal problems. I am in the middle now. I am going to take control of the situation and put them in a similar uncomfortable position. I am going to play with this guy's mind until he crumbles. Of course it will all look innocent and he won't be able to prove a thing.
The second time I decided I am not leaving the gym. I was a little more forceful. Something about twisting his head off and stuffing him in a locker. Okay, maybe a bit too forceful. It was effective, I no longer see him at the gym.
So I am trying to improve how I handle these situations. I have learned that talking didn't work and agressive intimidation did but could cause other legal problems. I am in the middle now. I am going to take control of the situation and put them in a similar uncomfortable position. I am going to play with this guy's mind until he crumbles. Of course it will all look innocent and he won't be able to prove a thing.