Just because I have a big dick dont mean I wanna fuck.

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  1. NawtyByNature

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    I get this all the time. It's kind of discouraging. Guys see my cock after a wide eyed "WOW" and some good brain, up go the legs waiting to get fucked. Maybe sometimes I don't wanna fuck, kissing, jackin, suckin, maybe even some rimming. Anybody else out there with this problem.
     
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    I feel the same way. Nothing turns me on more than dropping to my knees to lick, suck, and serve a nice hard dick but when most guys see my dick they want to "see how it feels going in". Sometimes fucking is not the end all be all. You wouldn't think it would be so hard to find men who just want to sit back and enjoy a good long blowjob, would you?
     
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    There's a lot to be said for some good frottage.
     
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    I think this is especially true in America. We are very "fuck" oriented. Anybody else notice this?
     
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    It is not unheard of for some well hung guys to be total bottoms, some of them even hate their size too because they are expected to be "the top" but just aren't into it.
     
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    I think this has alot to do with the fact that alot of American Guys are circumcised, so we lose alot of sensitivity, so then we don't feel as much pleasure from foreplay... (no not trying to start a circ thread, just stating a fact)
     
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    Well there were certain vows you all made when you joined the priesthood so we support you you all at the Vatican.
     
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    well I like lots of non anal activity. for me - making my man feel good and giving him pleasure with my mouth and hands is a joy.

    If he wants to fuck - so be it - bring it on but otherwise, letting him lay back to enjoy my giving him attention is so hot.
     
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    Agree. In my case it's not size but my general appearance and demeanor I guess.
    Guys ...I actually have more to offer ;)
     
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    I am still startled when I have been turned down due to being uncut (personally I would rather play with an 'avg' uncut man than a 'big' cut man- but we all have our preferences
     
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    I think this interesting on two levels:

    One, this is all from the gay perspective. But aside from that, I think it's a humanistic perspective - the abundance of sex makes one more selective. Is it safe to say there is a parallel with a woman's perspective on sex here?

    Two, I've reached this point as a heterosexual male. I just broke up with someone that was my perfect sexual match, and I've had more than a few partners as well, and now I'm not into just fucking. My new girlfriend turns heads everywhere we go, and is extremely sexual. I just don't always feel like fucking her. Case in point, after the first time we had sex, she invited me over, and opened the door with nothing on but her thong and bra, candlelit room, etc. I was thinking "Oh, thought you just wanted me to swing by and say hello ..."

    Don't know if that's unique as a male heterosexual or not, but I think it might be.
     
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    I like it all - I'll take it any way I can get it. If that means fucking, so be it. I've never heard of a dude being that picky.
     
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    Who turns you down, men or women? What do they say as the reason? I myself prefer cut, but if the guy is attractive to me and I decided to have sex with him and he takes his pants off and I see he is uncut, that wouldn't change my mind. Just curious -- I haven't heard of this before.
     
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    I am 100% oral so seeing your big cock wont make me flop on my belly, but I may drop to my knees. (wink)
     
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    1. I def do not think it is all about sex....i love giving head....i think it is so pleasurable, seeing as i dont have a gag reflex, to put as much of it down my throat as i can an make a guy moan.
    2. uncut is so hott.....i have no idea how someone could turn down anyone....it all depends on how you use it if i am going to be coming back for round 2.
     
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    I completely get this, I've even had guys seemingly get turned off if I suggest anything other than piledriving their arses. I love all the play and mucking about that accompanies fucking, and I love to suck a cock and get my siucked and e.t.c. I love a good snog too.

    It can be a bit frustrating to be seen as a dildo with legs :(
     
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    Well maybe the o.p. is saying that some people see a big cock and automatically assume two things: 1) you're the "party guy" and 2) all they have to do is give the word and it's a done deal (or as the Henny Youngman one-liner went, "Take my wife - please").

    Maybe one's not "there" (wherever "there" is) to fuck. Maybe one just wants to "catch some rays", "shoot the breeze", and sip a "cold one". :cool:
     
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    Seems like I'm the first women to comment. Women feel this way too. The men I've met don't put any effort into other form of intimacy. They just drive their cock into my pussy without any foreplay. I've tried to stop men from doing that by saying - let me suck your cock or oohh i want to feel your tongue on me. I'll ask them to spank me with their hand or their cocks, but they pretend not to hear me or say some pathetic excuse "I just want to feel your pussy around my cock."

    I'm not just some tight little hole for men to slide their cock in. I like to kiss, tickle, wrestle, spank, caress, etc...
     
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    I've found there's a distinct difference between women your age and about five to six years younger.

    My last two gf's have told me that they just want cock. One was actually irritated when I wanted to go down on her. I grew up sexually with the idea that women wanted more than to be used as a fuckhole.

    I've wondered if porn has played some part in this, or if perhaps things have just swung back from the over-pussified males of the 90s early 00s.
     
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    My girlfriend and i have sex at least once a day, Sometimes i am like fuck can't we just watch a movie, relax and go to bed?
     
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