[quote author=Dom link=board=sex;num=1057800436;start=0#0 date=07/09/03 at 18:18:16]
"about how fast on average can a guy with a 7 x 6.5 get a girl to orgasm? "
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Dom,
Hopefully, you won't be using a stopwatch on the night table beside the bed.!
Hint: 'Kinda spoils the mood!
Seriously, you'll need to realize that orgasm for a woman doesn't always depend SOLELY on (and from) the mere act of intercourse all by itself.
And, your "size dimensions" won't necessarily put you ahead of (or behind) the game in bringing her to that point. So, don't be mislead from any pre-conceived notions you may already have. Relax a bit.
Yes, orgasm takes place (ideally) from intercourse, but typically orgasm for a woman results from any (or all) of the activities / techniques (including foreplay) within love-making which do require a bit of time to "build up to". It's a combination of both the sensory and the physical aspects that all "build-up"and culminate together to bring about the climax for the woman.
You can't always rely (solely) on just the "mechanics" of intercourse itself to bring a woman to climax.
And, occasionally, a woman may even achieve an orgasm BEFORE intercourse itself...just from all the "preliminaries".
So, really, an orgasm results from a variety of factors (including techniques of stimulation) being used by both partners all working in "concert" with one another.
And, indeed, the time for a woman to achieve orgasm IS going to vary. It's going to vary from one woman to another and it's going to vary for a particular couple from one session of intimacy to another as well.
You (or any man for that matter) should not be trying to live up to some (unrealistic) "standard" of any kind and making love should not ever become a "time competition event."
Thankfully, "making love" is one of the few remaining pleasures in life where we don't need to watch
Mr. Clock nor do we need to file a report!
At least... not yet.