So, I went to meet this guy and he was wonderful and all. He would make a good boyfriend, and we would have a fulfilling relationship, except that he wants something which I'm not sure if I want the same too.
He asked me if I'd like to have anal sex, I said I wasn't ready for it. He asked me if I would like to go to one of those gay clubs or sauna, I said I wasn't into it. And a couple other things where we differed. To be honest, I am not into those kinds of places, which I'm not sure why. He was really fed up, and he told me, "******, you really don't know what you want... Please figure it out..."
So, I agree with him, because it has been the most frequent complaint I received when I meet a guy. Either I am not sure what I want, or too scared to do/have something, etc. So, I decided to close all my profiles in 3 dating websites, because it would be unfair for those who are interested in me but I might not be able to provide what they want me to.
I realize that if I'm ready to be in a relationship, I'd meet him in real life. I don't need a profile in a website because I thought it creates a sense of grandness more than I really am. It's like advertisement, the products always sound better than they actually are, and I think dating websites are like that. So, I think it's better to be myself and see if anyone would be interested in me genuinely.
I don't use LPSG to meet men, so I don't delete this.
He asked me if I'd like to have anal sex, I said I wasn't ready for it. He asked me if I would like to go to one of those gay clubs or sauna, I said I wasn't into it. And a couple other things where we differed. To be honest, I am not into those kinds of places, which I'm not sure why. He was really fed up, and he told me, "******, you really don't know what you want... Please figure it out..."
So, I agree with him, because it has been the most frequent complaint I received when I meet a guy. Either I am not sure what I want, or too scared to do/have something, etc. So, I decided to close all my profiles in 3 dating websites, because it would be unfair for those who are interested in me but I might not be able to provide what they want me to.
I realize that if I'm ready to be in a relationship, I'd meet him in real life. I don't need a profile in a website because I thought it creates a sense of grandness more than I really am. It's like advertisement, the products always sound better than they actually are, and I think dating websites are like that. So, I think it's better to be myself and see if anyone would be interested in me genuinely.
I don't use LPSG to meet men, so I don't delete this.