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Are some people born natural life long spinsters or batchelors?
They just dont have it in their design to ever have a relationship.
Sharing is difficult for a lot of people. Usually the progression happens naturally, though. If you haven't met someone romantically you love & trust enough to share with, emotionally or materially, there's no reason why you should.:smile:I think the answer is yes to this question. In my experience, I am 33 years old and have never had a relationship; that's not to say I haven't tried to find someone to settle down with, it's just never worked out for me. I don't lay blame to myself or the people I've dated. For whatever reason it just hasn't been in the cards so to speak for me thus far. I have noticed that over the last few years I have become very comfortable with my life and myself and worry now that I wouldn't be happy or even able to adjust to sharing everything with a partner. Where I once focused a lot of attention and wished I could meet someone special, now I find myself uninterested in even "going out" and would rather spend time with friends or just stay at home.
I would like to know what you guys think.
Are some people born natural life long spinsters or batchelors?
They just dont have it in their design to ever have a relationship.
There are people who are now called QuirkyAlones...
Quirkyalone - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
who while not necessarily opposed to being in a relationship, may not actively seek one.
While I have been alone most of my life, and have only been in one long term relationship, I don't necessarily consider myself a QuirkyAlone, although I appear to be on the surface. I've always daydreamed about being in a relationship, and it's important to me.
However, I am also wanting to enjoy "playing the field" for a while too, since I didn't get to do a whole lot of that either! I'm open to all the possibilities at this point in time.
I think some of the QuirkyAlones are probably perfectly happy not being in a relationship.