just for the record, small/average guys...

[voyeuristic]

It's funny: when I look at porn or masturbate, almost all of my fantasies involve massive cocks. I think it's something to do with the fact that when there's an absence of other stimuli - touch, smell, taste - visual takes center stage, and bigger wins out.

When I actually have a crazy-big crush on someone, though, suddenly I couldn't care less: I'm convinced that their body is perfect as-is, including their cock, and even if you told me I could snap my fingers and make it bigger, I wouldn't necessarily go for it.

I wonder how many men and women on here feel the same way.

 

[D_Hyacinth Harrytwat]

Put me down for one who's in agreement. By the time the clothes come off in a relationship, I'm already sold on everything else and I don't need to know his size before engaging in any intimate activities.

 

[2322]

Ditto. I couldn't care less. It doesn't matter to me what someone's packing.

 

[voyeuristic]

super_crayon, I generally fuck on the second-date, so what you said doesn't necessarily resonate with me...that is, I have sex with a lot of people I'm not necessarily intensely crushed out on.

But when I am, I don't give a fuck.

 

[D_Hyacinth Harrytwat]

So at least we can agree that when there's more of a connection with someone, then you don't care about the size?

 

[voyeuristic]

Not even, necessarily...more so that if someone's an otherwise physically beautiful specimen, cock size figures very minorly. (I develop plenty of "connections" with people who I'm not entirely sold on physically, but don't extend them the same generosity.)

(Damn, and I had you all thinking I was deep for a second there!)

 

[kc2007]

i think the way you feel is probably how most women truly feel, although many wont even admit they like to look at big cocks. a woman who can admit they like big cocks, at least to look at and it turns them on, imo, is a more sexually advanced, honest, and erotic woman.
A woman who only accepts a guy or cant be turned on or in a relationship with a guy because he's is average or small, is i guess a true "size queen" but also probably has some serious issues of her own.
There is a reason why the most popular dildos (outside of gag gifts) are average or just above the average real guy's dick.

 

[Khana]

Personally, I like variety.

But yeah, when fantasizing, or looking at porn, bigger is better. Like you said, looks is all you have to go on, so go crazy with looks.

But when there's more going on, it doesn't really matter. There's a lot of things that matter waaaay more!

Like, being able to get/maintain a solid erection is a bigger deal than the actual size of your cock. If given a choice, I'll gaze in wonder and admiration at a huge, semi hard cock, but will screw a rock hard average one.

 

[D_Petherick_Poundlouder]

I am bad, horrible, fickle, visual man. The reason for my crush normally involves look to some big degree so all parts of tehir body have long been evaluated.

 

[D_Hyacinth Harrytwat]

i think the way you feel is probably how most women truly feel, although many wont even admit they like to look at big cocks. a woman who can admit they like big cocks, at least to look at and it turns them on, imo, is a more sexually advanced, honest, and erotic woman.
A woman who only accepts a guy or cant be turned on or in a relationship with a guy because he's is average or small, is i guess a true "size queen" but also probably has some serious issues of her own.
There is a reason why the most popular dildos (outside of gag gifts) are average or just above the average real guy's dick.

I'm confused a woman who admits that she prefers to look at big cocks is more sexually advanced, honest and erotic than a woman who doesn't. Size queens admit to preferring larger cocks, therefore they are more sexually advanced honest and erotic, but they also have serious issues?

 

[kc2007]

I'm confused a woman who admits that she prefers to look at big cocks is more sexually advanced, honest and erotic than a woman who doesn't. Size queens admit to preferring larger cocks, therefore they are more sexually advanced honest and erotic, but they also have serious issues?

Well...i think all humans are "visual" creatures although it's only acceptable in our society that men like to see naked big tits and sexy bodies to get aroused. I think this is also the case with many women, although most usually aren't in touch with themselves enough to be able to admit this. To me, a woman who can say, "looking at a big cock gets me hot", is further along sexual evolution path than other women...or I at least find them more appealing.

Now the size queen who cannot settle for less than xx inches, to me, probably isn't as real or sexually advanced as the woman who can get turned on and cum with any sized man (within reason). This woman is also probably a less shallow and superficial woman...also a turn on for me.

Ok, it's a bit of a generalization, I'm sure there are a few size queens out there who truly are incapable of being aroused by an average or smaller cock and are very loving and "deep" individuals.

Now admitting to preferring a larger cock for penetration...I don't know, that's a bit of a gray area I guess. I guess that's like sorta a size queen.

any better?

 

[D_Hyacinth Harrytwat]

Well...i think all humans are "visual" creatures although it's only acceptable in our society that men like to see naked big tits and sexy bodies to get aroused. I think this is also the case with many women, although most usually aren't in touch with themselves enough to be able to admit this. To me, a woman who can say, "looking at a big cock gets me hot", is further along sexual evolution path than other women...or I at least find them more appealing.

Now the size queen who cannot settle for less than xx inches, to me, probably isn't as real or sexually advanced as the woman who can get turned on and cum with any sized man (within reason). This woman is also probably a less shallow and superficial woman...also a turn on for me.

Ok, it's a bit of a generalization, I'm sure there are a few size queens out there who truly are incapable of being aroused by an average or smaller cock and are very loving and "deep" individuals.

Now admitting to preferring a larger cock for penetration...I don't know, that's a bit of a gray area I guess. I guess that's like sorta a size queen.

any better?

Muuuch better! Your two points from your first post were so close together that my mind immediately drew the connection between them. There are so many exceptions to rules surrounding sexual preference that generalizations are a bit hard to make.

As humans, we can go beyond our visual nature and associate certain things with pleasure. The natural response from a woman who sees a big cock for the first time would probably be of excitement but for a woman who has had a bad experience with a big cock, she might not react the same way when presented with one, you know? Your generalizations were safe but the way they overlapped got me thinking!