Just friends?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Joseph, Oct 30, 2008.

  1. Joseph

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    What? No, if a girl told me that then I would not be surprised!
    I was the one telling that! And I didn't tell that to a girl! Check if a girl wanted me then I'd need a damn good reason to say no..... it was a friend of mine who is gay!

    He said he feels attracted to me. And it was not like he was one of those gay people that don't care about your sexuality, he just got confused.
    I am BI when it comes to sex, but I could never feel love toward a guy!

    He kinda felt a bit down and knowing him, he'd be sad and could even cry! Yeah... really emotional! So I tried to not make him feel bad, so that we stay friends.
    I told him that I don't feel bad about him telling me that, it's ok
    I explained that I just don't love guys.

    But since obviously that was not enough, I used the "strike the ball back" method

    "It's as if a girl told you she loves you"

    And all the sudden "Oh ... Now I understand what you mean" PHEW a friendship saved!

    Anyone else had a situation like this? He/She talks about love and your trying to keep the friendship, but not go into love at the same time?
    Did it work out like in my case?
     
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