Just got circumcised 2 days ago and I have concerns

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I'm 18 and I've wanted to be circumcised my entire life, so I bit the bullet and got a standard procedure done on Thursday. I took off the bandages this morning and was pleased with the level of healing and the absolute absence of pain...

BUT I'm concerned with the aesthetics of my schlong. It appears as though the doctor left the frenulum intact plus some. I have no doubts this will start to look better as time goes on, stitches come out, and swelling goes down, but what do you think about the appearance of this? The front of my peen looks great, it's just the back that looks off.

It's not as gruesome as you may think. The first pic is a good-looking front view, second is a semi-flaccid side shot, and the third is the worst of all, from several hours ago.

That is just swelling. It will go down and your frenulum looks like it is there fore the most part. No concern just allow it to heal.
 

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I'm curious why you didn't get a high and tight cut. You'd have more inner skin exposed and I think more aesthetically pleasing - although you have a beautiful cock anyway you look at it!
 

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From a western cultural point of view I was raised to believe it was wrong to cut. However as an adult and having had relationships with 2 guys who were cut (4 guys uncut), I have to say that I much prefer the look of it cut, especially when it's flaccid. Much more of a turn on to see the outline of the penis, instead of loose skin making it look like an old man, lol.
 

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I'm curious why you didn't get a high and tight cut. You'd have more inner skin exposed and I think more aesthetically pleasing - although you have a beautiful cock anyway you look at it!

A high and tight would most definitely remove the frenulum. Not sure if the OP was looking to retain the frenulum or not.
 

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From a western cultural point of view I was raised to believe it was wrong to cut. However as an adult and having had relationships with 2 guys who were cut (4 guys uncut), I have to say that I much prefer the look of it cut, especially when it's flaccid. Much more of a turn on to see the outline of the penis, instead of loose skin making it look like an old man, lol.

How does that happen? Forskin on a youthful person is as smooth as the rest of the skin. How does something not wrinkled make something look old? lol

You also can't judge all uncuts based on 2-3 uncuts as they vary just as cuts do. Some cuts come out decent others come out looking like their penis went through a shredder with a screwed up looking scar which is EPECIALLY bad for darker skinned penises. Circumcision tends to come out worse on blacks or people who are brown than it does lighter toned people because their dick gets a multicolored look, the part where it was cut is a totally different tone than the rest of the shaft and almost looks as if they have that pigment disease or someone poured acid on their penis.
 

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From a western cultural point of view I was raised to believe it was wrong to cut. However as an adult and having had relationships with 2 guys who were cut (4 guys uncut), I have to say that I much prefer the look of it cut, especially when it's flaccid. Much more of a turn on to see the outline of the penis, instead of loose skin making it look like an old man, lol.

I like my women circumcised. No loose skin hanging making it look like an old woman. Much more of a turn on.
 

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It's more swollen tonight... Swelling on the frenulum has gone down but chances are that area isn't going to end up quite how I'd like it... Nonetheless, could be worse. Here is, once again, the front shot, by far the most attractive angle on day 3.
 

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If you don't like the finished look and feel make him do it again as you want it done. I would go for the tight circumcision and low. When done you will not get the foreskin removed that you wanted and will need to go back to get the job done right. I had to.
 

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I had a standard circumcision with a urologist. I wasn't really given the option to specify :/.

That is a terrible shame, bud! Allow your recently circumcised cock sufficient time to heal. You should be allowed to have a revision and excise the frenulum if you wish.
 
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I think you are beautiful and respect your choice to do with your penis as you wanted. I have to be honest though it looked fantastic when it was uncut and it still does even now that it is cut. You just plain and simple have a great cock. :biggrin1: I will miss your foreskin though. Ahh to each his own.

To answer your question, the swelling makes it hard to say what it will look like, and your comment about a "shark fin" is fucking hot, Id love that little remnant. Think about it, thats why guys get it pierced and such, it would make your cock quite unique.
 

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Does this mean you are in the UK? And if so, was the 'standard procedure' an NHS one?

No, I actually just live in the Northwest US, but the culture is different here and everyone is against circumcision. I've heard Southern US is much more gung ho about it.

If you don't like the finished look and feel make him do it again as you want it done. I would go for the tight circumcision and low. When done you will not get the foreskin removed that you wanted and will need to go back to get the job done right. I had to.

I don't think I will get another circumcision, as I honestly don't care if the skin is loose flaccid... As long as it's not loose erect (which it isn't).


I think you are beautiful and respect your choice to do with your penis as you wanted. I have to be honest though it looked fantastic when it was uncut and it still does even now that it is cut. You just plain and simple have a great cock. :biggrin1: I will miss your foreskin though. Ahh to each his own.

To answer your question, the swelling makes it hard to say what it will look like, and your comment about a "shark fin" is fucking hot, Id love that little remnant. Think about it, thats why guys get it pierced and such, it would make your cock quite unique.

Heh, that's reassuring. I'm actually thinking of embracing it, but if worse comes to worst I don't mind a frenuloplasty. I just hate being out of the game for so long.

That is a terrible shame, bud! Allow your recently circumcised cock sufficient time to heal. You should be allowed to have a revision and excise the frenulum if you wish.

Yes, that is what I'm considering. I'll be sure to post pics once I've got the swelling down and I am also applying pressure to the area.
 

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I was done at 7. painfull, but rememnber a bit. yes it will look better as time passes. I was glad I had it done. so much cleaner. You may want to try not to get a hard on for a few weeks. ( if possible ) every thing takes tiime to heal. good choise and youre looking good..