ok it took me like 30 minutes of...um....sexing. I guess thats the word. Well anyways i couldnt "ejaculate" even though i was super excited. I had to do some hands on experience to finish the job. Also i lost the erection twice,about 10 and 20 minutes into it. It lasted like 20 seconds though. Is that normal? I had only two drinks that night total about 2 hours before. I couldnt seem to do it fast either, its was slow, and sloppy, i couldnt "thrust" fast for some reason. It was quite the funny experience. She was an older woman so i told her before that ive never done it and she laughed and told me it was obviously ok if it wasnt good the first time but she had an orgasm and wasnt faking it. I also told her to not fake it and that i wouldnt be mad if she didnt cause it was my first time. We talked about all that stuff so i would....um i guess feel comfortable. hahahaha Will it get easier or faster as you get more experience? i tried to not laugh during the entire time cause it was so funny. By the way i was standing up and hitting it doggy style, which im not used to standing up etc..