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I am a straight married man, but I have no attraction at all to other men or their bodies.'
But I get hard thinking about passionatley kissing another man and evn enjoy watching men fenching passionately in porn
Plus watching two cocks stroked against each other like frotting also gets me horny. for some reason thses acts get me horny but thinking about men in general ro having actual sex with them does nothing for me
Anyone know what this means
 

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Based on what you have written, it seems that you know what it means. If you are getting horny due to fantasizing about and watching men in different sexual acts, then you are probably not straight. At the very least, it seems like you're bisexual. There are many bisexual men who do not find men appealing, only the sex.
 

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I am a straight married man, but I have no attraction at all to other men or their bodies.'
But I get hard thinking about passionatley kissing another man and evn enjoy watching men fenching passionately in porn
Plus watching two cocks stroked against each other like frotting also gets me horny. for some reason thses acts get me horny but thinking about men in general ro having actual sex with them does nothing for me
Anyone know what this means
The range of bi sexuality is extremely wide, if seeing two guys in a sexual act turns you on then great, means you are bi curious, at some stage the curiosity may get then better of you which kinda happened to me ,I'm not attracted to men at all, butt having sex with men and even kissing with men turns me on.
 

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There are many bisexual men who do not find men appealing, only the sex.
I am like this. And the sex is quite limited to cocksucking and when i am in the mood fucking.
 

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Embrace your sexuality and explore. Enjoy what turns you on. From an early age, my favorite scenes in porn mags were when they had men having sex with women. the women alone were not the biggest turn on. I did not know I was bisexual back then but over the years realized that I am.

Not saying that you are or are not. It's a journey that you can manage and should explore.

For me, it ebbs and flows and leans more male as I get older. I have found out that a lot of men have very similar experiences. More straight when young and more bi or gay later in life. It's probably wired into us so we can reproduce, have families, and later still enjoy sex. I find that women need sex less and less as they get older but men still need it. Maybe that's all there is to it. Disclaimer, I am not a psychologist but this is just what I think might be part of it, at least for me.
 
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A lot of guys deny themselves to explore both sides of sex.. gay and straight..

I myself when beginning sex I’d fuck guys and girls .. it didn’t matter as long as my cock got to fuck ..I will say I am more gay than straight .. though

Years ago I had couple buddies over to play Fortnite for while .. and it got late and I crashed on the couch …

I woke up listening to them laughing and talking but didn’t understand what it was about until I realized they were talking about my cock.. apparently I had gotten aroused and they saw it…

mine asked what did it look like out of my pants.. I showed them and they were like fuck dude.. this began a show and tell thing as they were smaller than me.. but one of them was thick as hell..

This triggered a lot of touching and all.. they knew I was gay but it didn’t bother them that we were doing this..

one of them says he had never sucked a guys dick or had his sucked by a guy..but had often thought about it.. the other one said same thing..


So the idea of guys kissing making you horny is maybe not necessarily your gay side emerging from within.. but the curious aspect of it all..

I bet you’re afraid if kissed a man erotically that you’re afraid it will go further.. that’s your mind wanting to explore new sensations.. don’t be afraid to let it happen.. you may end out enjoying some of it.. or all of it