littlelemon....first of all you aren't little, so the name doesn't fit. You
are a very good size, thick and have a good length...
Secondly, the first time is always a disaster in one way or another for both
persons. It has been that way, probably since Adam and Eve...or, Adam and
Steve as the case may be...so forget it and know that the dreaded and longed
for "first time"...is finally over! Whew!!! And, then look forward to the future.
It gets better, believe me...:biggrin:
For her, the worry and initial discomfort is now over....no longer will she worry
about whether it will be uncomfortable or even painful. No more worrying about
will she instinctly know what to do, or how to act. It's finally over, and yes, she
is probably even more sore today than last night, but that will pass and she will
eventually open up and find it a wonderful experience.
For you, there will be no more worrying about.....can I get it up? Can I keep it
up? Will it hurt her..or..am I hurting her? Both of which are boner killers..:sad:,
so don't worry about it AT ALL.....it happens, and it happens to every one
of us at one time or another....it is a "Rite of Passage." No more worring about
am I doing it right? Will she think I'm a dork or worse? SOUND FAMILIAR? :biggrin:
I believe you will get over it really quickly....and have little trouble in the future.
Why, because of what you said....that she is someone you love and that you care
about her and her feelings.....and she seemed happy. Yes, maybe the first time
was not as you had wished, but it's over now.
Just don't rush things and take it slow. Let her heal so that when the next time
you do get together, she will really be comfortable and relaxed, but I hope excited,
ready, and receptive to try again. If it were I, I would do a lot of foreplay for a
few days and leave the penetration for a time when you and she are sure she is
ready.
Good Luck, man....and CONGRATS to you both!!
