Just noticed this but you might have picked it up already....

[Smooth88]

I'm very nervous about sex and the whole concept of sex. I know a lot about it but I've never been really comfortable with anyone about my sexuality. I just want to ease into my first time but theres a conflict in my mind about how I feel unwanted and people are incapable of wanting me. I want love more than sex but if I could find some girl I'm comfortable to have sex with and who wants to have sex with me I'd feel so much better. I just want my first time, want to be comfortable, and want to be able to please a woman. I have my problems as I've previously documented on this site and I've been hurt by a lot of people and have never been really comfortable with who I am, my sexuality and even my penis. The only time a girl has seen my cock and rated it she said I was small and that hurt. I was only 15 at the time and I'm just now realizing im really hung. But noone can really confirm that. I want to get laid but I want to find a girl I can get to know who will take their time with me and make me feel safe and it can be a continuing relationship and learning experience for me. Ill post this in the ads too. Thank you for listening friends. Some of my only friends.

 

[Viking_UK]

You could maybe try hanging out with older women - and I don't mean someone's granny. Women in their mid-20s to early-30s usually know what they're doing and are also flattered by attention from a younger guy. Plus they're more likely to be considerate of your feelings and anxieties.

Whatever age they are though, it's better to get to know them and if you can make them laugh, that goes a long way when beginning a relationship, whether it be sexual or just friends. It also helps boost your confidence.