''just pumping away''

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  1. dolfette

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    how do us girls really feel about it?

    i know a lot of guys think they're the studliest stud in the studiverse if they can keep pumping in and out for hours on end.

    so, ladies, if he's just pumping away, the inning and outing and inning thing, nothing more, nothing less, what do we think?
     
  2. SilverTrain

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    The notion that men were supposed to pump away relentlessly, and that this is what women needed/wanted was responsible for a great deal of my sexual anxieties in my youth. And in my old age, as well!
     
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    If he has managed to position himself so that he's sawing over the right spot I'm all for it.
    If he's got the right speed and is pulling all the way out, beginning each stroke with fresh penetration I'm all for it.
    If he presses and holds at the bottom of each stroke, I'm not complaining.

    If it's just the metronomic in, out, in, out, in, out, it's pretty boring.
     
  4. dolfette

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    i get bored.
    bores, bored, bored!

    i'm not a vag holder, i'm a whole person.
    touch my skin! no, not just in the naughty places. all over. my neck and back, if stroked gently, will fill me with tingles. i like feeling fingers in my hair and teeth nibbling my neck. i want to feel like you're moving with me, not moving in time to the clock.

    it sucks.

    {and exhale...}
     
  5. dolfette

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    no, i need to bitch some more.

    if the only points of contact you think you need with my body are your cock and the hand you put on my rump just for balance?
    go home and i'll buy you a fricking fleshlight!
     
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    ::taking notes::
     
  7. Gillette

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    Oh, please.

    I'm single and have sex rarely.
    You're married and have successful sex with your wife often AND have been able to intelligently describe the mechanics of what has made it work for the two of you.

    I should be the one taking notes.
    Only reason I don't is because bookmarking posts is easier.:biggrin1:
     
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    *sigh*

    Ok...... On behalf of the single breasted people....... I apologize

    I extend my sympathy and want to publicly express my disappointment in the a fore mentioned members of the brotherhood who think that's the proper and often ONLY way to fuck or even make love. I can't even begin to imagine what it would feel like having someone use your body to jack off with or just continuously thrust with no pause for your satisfaction or connection. I have watched e different male friends machine gun a girls crotch like it was the beach at normandy while confident that they were pleasing her insides after pleasing the out side with dry fingers (which is a different apology entirely) and chapped lips for two full minutes.

    So, please accept my apology for the ones who think that the way they fuck their hand is the way to pleasure a woman, thank you
     
  9. dolfette

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    ok, i laughed.
     
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    Whatevah! I'm just a horny 44 year old insomniac who, for medical reasons has the libido of an 18 year old and who has no kids and no distractions to take me away from one of my true passions.

    In other words, thanks!

    That is the world's loss. With a mind like that you need to be fucked, and often, and by someone who knows how.

    Wow, next to hearing, "You've got a big dick", I do believe that is one of the sweetest compliment I've heard.
     
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    Good.....

    Just please be patient as I work to change the system from the inside, and keep in mind (as I have said for a year now) not 1 in 100 women have your combination of awareness and assertive confidence. And due to most women's reflex to spare fragile egos, the poor walking uterus jackhammers.........they just DO NOT KNOW ANY BETTER....... And even as adults the only orgasm inducing sex they know is from when they were 15 and the habit of treating their penis like they caught it breaking in the house at 2am was formed. Teach them dolfette, don't give up on them....... Be the bigger person and try to do the right thing...... You will get into heaven, AND you will have a trained partner who can still last as long as you want but hit the make-you-moan whack-a-moles in your arcade of lust

    Thank you for considering my proposal
     
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    whoah, whack-a-moles in the arcade of lust, eh? That is damned witty.

    Yes, I have indeed called partners on this behavior. They learned it from porn. They did not take into consideration that porn is posed for the camera, not the enjoyment of the actors.

    Seriously, if they have made me come multiple times and did not even notice this, not enjoying what they are up to either, it may be time for a pause for refreshment. Mince pies are good.
     
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    I agree with dolfette. Now the jackhammer is all fine and good when it's done right.

    It's the robotic in, out, in, out that kills me. Like I could read a book and you just let me know when you are done. Domo Arigato.
     
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    Why don't you make good use of the time, then? I suggest bringing in some cold cuts and get a head start on making his sandwich while he's working up the appetite.
     
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    Equivelant? Who needs a man? lol
     

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    Jedi mind tricks are required at times like these. :rolleyes:
     
  17. dolfette

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    let the farce be with me :rolleyes:
     
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    couldnt have said it better myself D :smile:
     
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    I keep seeing you endlessly complaining about how bad guys are at sex/oral/other things, and yet as shown on the forums here, there are plenty of men who know how to fuck a girl properly.

    Who do you keep fucking that's so terrible at it?
     
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