I am not meeting alot of women I can see myself in a relationship with, I am also not willing to lie and pretend like i'm into a girl when in reality I can't stand her for many reasons. I have a problem inwhich I mainly respect a person based on his/her smarts. The ability to be happy around (conversation etc) my partner is crucial, and if I can't do that for a number of reasons I can't be in a relationship with the female. Well I recently met an African young lady, who knows alot but she is a christian (staunch one at that) and she won't have sex until after marriage. I am loving the time we spend with each other tho, I want to do everything with her. Here is the problem, I want to meet females who are willing to just have sex without the painful conversation. I don't want to lie, and the truth is I really can't stand talking to alot of females my age. Even the ones in college aren't always as informed to the degree I would need for me to be comfortable enough to make them my GF.