Hi ALL, I am here as an older guy and am new at this. Been married twice, but now am a widower. I had lots of homosexual experiences into my mid-twenties before my marriages. Even had some while married.:redface: Like to see nice cocks. I am not the standard BIG guy. One guy described it best--"I am a grower--but not that big sometimes 2 or 3 inches flaccid and sometimes a turtle" lol Just a lot of foreskin. But my morning wood was 5.5 inches today-I measured to be sure. Sorry if I am in the wrong group. I do have a serious question though. I have read different things about STD's. Some say that sucking cock is not an HIV concern and others say I should use protection always! Which is it? I am getting to the point where I want to try with a guy, but if I don't know him too well-what should I do? I am not sure which advice to listen to. Suggestions will be appreciated.