"there's no difference between someone with HIV who is undetectable and someone who is not" then why can people who hqve it not donated blood or bone marrow your rebuttal is false. Also the virus can mutate also if someone is not strict with their medication then then it can also be dangerous. Of course there are thousands of people who have caught it through no fault of their own many cases im sure where its been their first time, but guys like Kayden are a different story they chose to go to a sex clubs and involve drugs and lots of bareback sex, someone like that doesn’t scream I'm a responsible guy and look after my sexual health. Most people wouldn't sleep withone who is undetectable and shouldn't feel guilty for saying so. Our community is rife with guys that simply don't give a fuck who or what they shag.