Hello, Going out with this girl 24 years old. I'm 22. I have been with this girl since June. She went on vacation to see her parents in Europe for a month. We wrote each other email and spoke online almost every day for the entire month. She came back a month ago. Now she's always partying with her friends. She doesnt invite me. She always go out with her girl friends to party and drink a few days a week. I hardly get to see her and she can hang out cause she's always busy. She's been very sweet and gave me lots of gifts when she came back. I just wish she would call more often and go out. We had sex only once before she left. (without condom) It was great. Last sunday we were going to do it and she insisted that i wear a condom(i hate them, but that's fine). I did not enjoy it at all. Something was wrong. When i inserted my finger, she was like "aww aww aww..slowly baby." it was like she was in pain from my finger. She even told me when she got back that we cant have sex until she is ready. I said fine, without asking her why or what's wrong. I was just glad she's back. Now she goes with her friends all the time without even calling me or inviting me. is she cheating? what is going on with her? I need to talk to her, but what do u guys think?