Keep The Hot Sex Going?

kernmtnmike

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North Seattle Bear here. Have a Silverdaddy Bear that I am sooo in love with. We make great friends, with lots of common interests. He also, makes me have multiple anal orgasms. The only man I've been with that way. I want to live together. Him noooot so much. How do we meet in the middle. If I stay with him, the way he wants it, won't it keep me from meeting the man who really wants/needs me?
 
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How I've handled this in the past is to tell someone that, since it's obvious we aren't the one for each other, I'm going to look for other guys but I will still hang out with him on occasion (and especially if I have no new prospects for dates etc). That way you can keep the casual sex while you look for something else. But yeah it's clear you can't invest 100% of your time/resources into this if you want something deeper.