Keepin' it hot

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by 8060, Apr 4, 2008.

  1. 8060

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    What other acts of intimacy (other than intercourse) do you and your significant other partake in to keep the spice in your relationship that was so evident in the beginning?
     
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    me and my wife started to spice up our life by swinging. we started in the lifestyle about 6 yrs ago now and have found some good friends with benefits. but you have to be careful in the lifestyle because of the weirdos out there.
     
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    I Love To Eat The Rectum---i Even Wrote A Song About It ---i Want To Nibble On Your Rec Rec Nibble On Your Rec Rec I Really Want To Get Down On That Thang!
     
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    Hundreds & hundreds of different things mate..... just takes a good imagination (& a filthy mind!)
    Intercourse is way down on the list for me!
     
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    we write dirty letters and notes to eachother, phone sex when we are apart(he seems to enjoy this more then I do)!
     
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    If you mean spicing the whole relationship, the answer is keeping your significant other on central stage, surprising her/him every day, not big things, a flower, a dinner, a caress, an unexpected kiss. Most important: pursuing a goal together, day by day, and having a long term common life project.

    In sex things come up whle doing it, just keep your mind open and your hormones reactive. Your partner's body is a source of lust.
     
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    Now, here's an idea. It's not really my cup of tea, but I certainly see how this would keep a couple on their toes.

    Where's my phone so I can call the biggest producer I know to get you a record deal? You can be the next one hit wonder, C:wink::biggrin1::cool:

    My mind needs to be steamcleaned currently. It's so filthy I can't even see thru it.

    Yeah, us boys just like it when you talk dirty to us about our dicks. We can't help it. We like to feel them grow:tongue:

    This is one of my favorites. I know you all have good sex; excuse me great sex:cool:

    I love everyone's responses. Thanks so much:redface:
     
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    Interesting song...it must be inspired by the Dada movement...

    I would think that another alternative sexual connection would include tantric sex. I have little background in it, but I understand it to be highly intimate and intense as it eschews traditional frictional orgasm. I wonder if anyone here has ever practiced tantra.
     
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    I was really into tantric a couple of years ago when I was in a relationship. It's phenomenal. I need to get back into it. The more you do it, you'll be hooked. It puts your sexual senses on such a different level from the normal physical contact. You'll be able to mentally produce the most spastic orgasms you've ever felt.

    [Damn, where's that book?]
     
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    Sold! Where do I sign up?
     
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    Keeping things hot and spicy is not a problem now and I don't expect it will be in the future. I have to agree with Italian...making each other feel as though it is the first time each time can add a lot to the relationship!
     
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    I'm not in a relationship now, but when I was, here's what we did:

    sent dirty text messages & emails...
    wore certain types of underwear & put on surprise shows...
    reminisced about how we met...and how we felt in the beginning...
    it always kicked up the old feelings...
     
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