So I'm gonna come out and say it, I'm not really a size queen, in fact the type of guys I usually got for are small (I like short men) and in the past I havent bottomed so frequently. But recently I started dating a guy who is very big, I'm thinking eight and a half to nine inches and thick, I enjoy the sex, but I'm really concerned that having too much penetrative sex with a big cock will leave me really loose. We've only been sleeping together for a few weeks and its already starting to hurt less... and i kinda like the pain. Any tips on how to keep a tight? And can frequent sex with such a big cock have longterm effects?