I know I don't have ED because I can get it up pretty easily (sometimes too easily). Whenever I'm with someone even slightly fooling around I'll be hard, but as soon as its time to get down to actually doing something, sometimes I lose it. So I know that its probably purely anxiety. I've seen other posts where people don't know why this is happening to them and people usually just tell them that it's nerves, but since I know that's the problem, how do I deal with the nerves? Does anyone have any advice on how they get over the stage fright and keep it up?