Since I had a baby over 2 years ago, I'm really really paranoid about being loose. When we have sex I get really wet, and I'm always afraid it feels "sloppy" for him. So I do like 50-100 kegels every day. I really had no way of knowing if they worked, other than asking hubby....and of course he always says it feels amazing in there. I really never take his word for it, thinking that he wouldn't tell me that it was loose even if it was. So this weekend we took a trip to his hunting cabin and did all sorts of naughty stuff - including breaking in my new dildo. I discovered that by squeezing my PC muscle I could "pop" the dildo all the way out with out touching it at all. I was alone when I did it the first time, and when I showed hubby, he said "yea, that's what you do to me when you cum". I know I 'try' to milk his cock - but never knew if he felt it. So I guess my question is - does that mean I have good muscle control and that the kegels are working? If not, does anyone know of another "test" I could do?