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A few weeks ago I made a post that I had met a new guy and that I was totally into him and he was totally into me and that even though we were taking it slowly he wanted to have sex with me. Well I texted him a couple of days after a conversation we had had and asked him if he'd like me to come over, since I got off of work early. Well he starts in about how he doesn't think it is a good idea right now and that maybe we should wait awhile. He also said that he doesn't want friends with benefits. We have still been talking and flirting, but we haven't gone out since the first date. I know he is still into me but I want to take our relationship to the next level.
I was also a little hurt because I found out he has been sleeping around with friends of his. This normally wouldn't bother me, since we aren't really in a relationship, but he was all hesitant about doing friends with benefits, and yet he has no problem with doing that with his other friends. Is it just me? Am I not sexy enough for him? I mean he tells me all the time how hot I am and we sext constantly. We send naked pictures back and forth, but he won't fuck me or get to know me better so that we can fuck. I'm kinda hurt. Am I justified in being hurt?
I was also a little hurt because I found out he has been sleeping around with friends of his. This normally wouldn't bother me, since we aren't really in a relationship, but he was all hesitant about doing friends with benefits, and yet he has no problem with doing that with his other friends. Is it just me? Am I not sexy enough for him? I mean he tells me all the time how hot I am and we sext constantly. We send naked pictures back and forth, but he won't fuck me or get to know me better so that we can fuck. I'm kinda hurt. Am I justified in being hurt?