Kinsey did find some some 9 inchers but not one ten incher in a sample of 3500 men. But that's not to say they don't exist. I find madame zora posts have a ring of truth. She mentions finding someone hung in daily life by chance almost impossible. The other ladies are finding them everywhere. Although some may be here because by chance they found one.
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I find it ironic that I was 53 before I realized I was in the average range. So much talk and a few exhibitionist who were well hung that I saw when I was young and yes a few porn movies had distorted my concept of average.
It is even more ironic that I found out I was average on a Large Penis forum. So this forum is really a great place for any guy. I think it is great that teens are here so long as they don't post pictures or make any attempts to meet any adults for any sexual activity. Both of those are of course illegal.
And you younger guys, the only guys who are going to make fun of your dick think they have a small dick too regardless what size it really is. The guys compeltely satisfied and happy with their dick or the ones who have had problems because it is bigger than they want because they can't control it and the bulge gets lots of stares will rarely make fun of any other guys dick.
I am talking about high school and up. Junior hi are going to laugh and joke about anything and everything. That comes with that age. But that kind of teasing is usually gone by age 16 or 17.
This has been a good thread. It has been discussed by reasonable and honest people at least the posts that I have read have been. It is good to see people advocating that guys should not be ashamed of their bodies.
True many of us could do a better job of taking care of it. But be ashamed? No.
I am aggravated about those 10 lbs at Christmas that haven't gone away. But I wasn't too ashamed of the extra weight to turn town that apple pie, hot fudge sundae and assorted desserts over the past few months.
And Jana, thanks for the statistics you gave from the Kinsey Report. Glad you took the time to look them up and report them. Wish I could remember the name of the report that I read and where I read it. And I appreciate your validating the points that I made. I highly respect your opinions.
It is even more ironic that I found out I was average on a Large Penis forum. So this forum is really a great place for any guy. I think it is great that teens are here so long as they don't post pictures or make any attempts to meet any adults for any sexual activity. Both of those are of course illegal.
And you younger guys, the only guys who are going to make fun of your dick think they have a small dick too regardless what size it really is. The guys compeltely satisfied and happy with their dick or the ones who have had problems because it is bigger than they want because they can't control it and the bulge gets lots of stares will rarely make fun of any other guys dick.
I am talking about high school and up. Junior hi are going to laugh and joke about anything and everything. That comes with that age. But that kind of teasing is usually gone by age 16 or 17.
This has been a good thread. It has been discussed by reasonable and honest people at least the posts that I have read have been. It is good to see people advocating that guys should not be ashamed of their bodies.
True many of us could do a better job of taking care of it. But be ashamed? No.
I am aggravated about those 10 lbs at Christmas that haven't gone away. But I wasn't too ashamed of the extra weight to turn town that apple pie, hot fudge sundae and assorted desserts over the past few months.
And Jana, thanks for the statistics you gave from the Kinsey Report. Glad you took the time to look them up and report them. Wish I could remember the name of the report that I read and where I read it. And I appreciate your validating the points that I made. I highly respect your opinions.
Misty: I dont think Madame Zora is quite that far out. I mean, we have to be somewhat realistic and say we're only talking about every man in this country who is genuinely, absolutely, verifyably 10 inches or more. Im sure Im wrong but I do think the number would be quite a lot lower than suggested. Then, also, we have no real way of knowing if those men have, for one reason or another, gravitated towards certain parts of the country. That kind of skews things because some parts of the country may be under represented while some are over represented. Then, a woman in an over represented part of the country has a greater chance of meeting one of those men. You'd also have to guess that people in certain industries, like the sex industry, would be more likely to happen upon or know of more men who fit that bill.
Anyway, why would it be surprising that the women who post here have husbands who are bigger? I would have thought you'd be more likely to come to this site after you'd encountered that larger guy than before. Ive only noticed a small number of women posting here regularly so if they've met well-endowed men then that doesnt suggest they've found it easy to meet them. It just means they've met them and they're posting here.
But this is all just guess work and speculation. I think if I wanted a good approximate I could just ask one of the managers at work what her opinion is. She was an escort for about 15 years in NYC and California so Im sure she's seen a lot more than I ever will.
Anyway, why would it be surprising that the women who post here have husbands who are bigger? I would have thought you'd be more likely to come to this site after you'd encountered that larger guy than before. Ive only noticed a small number of women posting here regularly so if they've met well-endowed men then that doesnt suggest they've found it easy to meet them. It just means they've met them and they're posting here.
But this is all just guess work and speculation. I think if I wanted a good approximate I could just ask one of the managers at work what her opinion is. She was an escort for about 15 years in NYC and California so Im sure she's seen a lot more than I ever will.
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Misty, you made a lot of good points. Yes, I think many of the women who come here either have larger s/os or are very interested in them. I think that's not surprising, but the ones who say their s/o is huge, their last b/f was huge, their first b/f was huge...you get the point. Unless they HAVE been in the sex industry, I find it unfathomable. I WAS in the industry (as a masseuse) and I never saw a 10'' dick. I find the likelihood that someone would find several by accident completely unbelievable.
I think that maybe some people are missing the point of men obsessing with size studies. Inherintly most men know what the average size is, or can find it in two seconds on the web. Truth be told, men with average sized penises don't want to be told that they are average, but that they are large. Every time a doctor or a health worker tries to refute the Kinsey study and say that the average is less, then there are alot of men out there who suddenly become larger than average. This is a pride thing, men will find the study that boosts their confidence the most and ignore the rest. I think the increase in membership here, is not so that more men can find out they are normal, but that they are larger than normal.
I say, keep lowering the average. If the average is stated as 4" then a huge number of men now think that they are large, and what goes with being told you have a large todger?? Why, confidence of course. This means better sex for women and men, as more men are confident. Everyone wins.
For good or evil, us men are ego driven. When a boy asks is my penis average, the answer he hopes to hear more than any other: "No, you are large".
I say, keep lowering the average. If the average is stated as 4" then a huge number of men now think that they are large, and what goes with being told you have a large todger?? Why, confidence of course. This means better sex for women and men, as more men are confident. Everyone wins.
For good or evil, us men are ego driven. When a boy asks is my penis average, the answer he hopes to hear more than any other: "No, you are large".
I'm sure she's seen a lot of dick, but it's probably not an accurate representation of the male population. If you're Baby Carrot Dick, Jr., having sex with a prostitute can be a big step to take. Likewise, if you're really hung... I don't know, I guess I can only speak for myself, but I think insecurity plays a significant role in this. I would think that a lot of us are insecure about our size.
And yeah, I know I'm a statistical anomaly. I've been in countless locker rooms, and I've never seen a REALLY huge guy. Well, not really anyway. Maybe some in the 6 inch range (flaccid), but that's probably the biggest.
"almost" being the operative word. If you're really in the double-digit range... well, you know... most women can't take a dick that big. Chances are you'd get turned down right on the spot.
You would be surprised. Though much of mine experience has been with sex workers in wild and wooly san francisco. But even they haven't seen someone my size very often. You just have to start out slowly if they're concerned until they get use to you and they have to trust you. It has never really been a problem except for one very short woman and i never really tried. She said she could only take half of it. That why when i read some of the posts on other boards i wonder. .But i really don't know. You might be right. What i am curious about is why there aren't more female size queens here ? Is it because there aren't that many. We know they exist. Or because its too raunchy ? Or because its too dangerous meeting strangers & most women keep to their social circle. Most people marry someone in their own class.
When it comes to penis size its hard to seperate fact from friction so when a real life case comes along it adds some light. We know that john holmes had sex or supposely had sex with thousands of women many of them lets say for lack of a better term civilian women { not adult sex movie stars }.
But there was also portofolio rubisora who was 11" or more { widely known }. He was zsa zsa gabor's boyfriend. Supposely in a frenzy of lust women around the world chased him. There is a hint of truth because he married the 2 icons of his time , doris duke who just passed away { 1.2 billion dollars } and barbara hutton of the woolworth fortune. The fact he had sex with so many of the famous women of his time including susan hayward , mm and many more leads me to beleive penis size or a large penis size isn't a problem. And that a big penis can be a good thing. But reality is always hard to gauge.
But there was also portofolio rubisora who was 11" or more { widely known }. He was zsa zsa gabor's boyfriend. Supposely in a frenzy of lust women around the world chased him. There is a hint of truth because he married the 2 icons of his time , doris duke who just passed away { 1.2 billion dollars } and barbara hutton of the woolworth fortune. The fact he had sex with so many of the famous women of his time including susan hayward , mm and many more leads me to beleive penis size or a large penis size isn't a problem. And that a big penis can be a good thing. But reality is always hard to gauge.
When barbara hutton { who along with doris duke from what i have seen were very attractive } first saw him she wasn't impressed and wondered what all the fuss was about { she didn't know he had a big penis then }. He was also supposely a very charming guy , but so was cary grant , so i don't think that was his appeal.
Finally some women and strange as it might sound don't seem to notice or care about my big penis or at least they don't mention it so i don't know what they're thinking but i have been never turned down. I have read though that asian massage palors in sf turn away black guys because they think they are too big but i have never had any problem there and they seem happy to see me when i do go there. { but then again i can't read minds } I don't know that all this stuff going on in sf is good or bad. I mean you can have sex with the strippers in some clubs. Its become a lifestyle from what i've read for some guys.
I also wanted to add that a big penis { at least mine } doesn't look like many of those photos which might be digitally enchanced or it might the angle etc. In that regard i don't think many women can gauge size. It not something you can practice or study & i don't think many of them are experienced at it or even care about. They might a sense if you're small or big but for many of them its a mystery. { but the 6" average is well know } But can they tell 8 from 10 from 12 from 14. Maybe somewhat but i think its difficult telling 6 from 8. But even if they can but are attracted to you then its no problem and seem more than happy to have sex with you regardless. {i would guess because i really don't know} In the real world its murky.
I love this thread. There are too many posts I liked to respond to anyone in particular so I will just add my two cents.
Ever since high school and especially in college I have been very up front (rude? inappropriate?) about quizzing guys on their dick size and guys and gals on the sizes of their partners. One thing that I found interesting in school was vastly different assessment of the same guy by different gals. One fellow was described by one woman as big and comparable to her first boyfriend who had left her in pain for days. The same guy was described by another woman as "So samll I couldn't feel him." then there was a guy that I know who had a 7 3/4 inch dick. One woman described him as the biggest she had ever had. Another described the same guy as average and compared him to a current boyfriend who had exactly 6 inches. But this last girl had been with a guy who was undeniably huge and so anyone between 5 and 8 inches seemed to be all the same to her.
I had a young friend a couple of years ago who was telling me proudly that he used Magnum condoms. He had recently slept with a girl that had previously slept with his best friend and she said that he was even "bigger" than his friend, who had apparently "bottomed out" with her. So I'm getting all hot and bothered as this fellow is describing this to me and I stutter an inquiry as to just how massive he is. And he stands tall and a big grin crosses his face and he declares "Six inches." I just said "Huh. Cool." and moved on to a different subject. He seemed so proud I didn't want to burst his bubble.
Ever since high school and especially in college I have been very up front (rude? inappropriate?) about quizzing guys on their dick size and guys and gals on the sizes of their partners. One thing that I found interesting in school was vastly different assessment of the same guy by different gals. One fellow was described by one woman as big and comparable to her first boyfriend who had left her in pain for days. The same guy was described by another woman as "So samll I couldn't feel him." then there was a guy that I know who had a 7 3/4 inch dick. One woman described him as the biggest she had ever had. Another described the same guy as average and compared him to a current boyfriend who had exactly 6 inches. But this last girl had been with a guy who was undeniably huge and so anyone between 5 and 8 inches seemed to be all the same to her.
I had a young friend a couple of years ago who was telling me proudly that he used Magnum condoms. He had recently slept with a girl that had previously slept with his best friend and she said that he was even "bigger" than his friend, who had apparently "bottomed out" with her. So I'm getting all hot and bothered as this fellow is describing this to me and I stutter an inquiry as to just how massive he is. And he stands tall and a big grin crosses his face and he declares "Six inches." I just said "Huh. Cool." and moved on to a different subject. He seemed so proud I didn't want to burst his bubble.
Here's my take:
I'm not the slut of my group, but I have been with well over 50 guys.
Of those, i put the average in the 6 to 7 inch range.
the 5's.......as well as the 8-9's have been more rare for me.
These are guys of all backgrounds, aged 21-47....from South Texas,
to Minneapolis, to good ole New York City.
The biggest ones consistantly, were from Minnesota.
I realize there is nothing concrete here, just sharing my story.
I'm not the slut of my group, but I have been with well over 50 guys.
Of those, i put the average in the 6 to 7 inch range.
the 5's.......as well as the 8-9's have been more rare for me.
These are guys of all backgrounds, aged 21-47....from South Texas,
to Minneapolis, to good ole New York City.
The biggest ones consistantly, were from Minnesota.
I realize there is nothing concrete here, just sharing my story.
Members of my race are not allowed to visit Asian massage parlors in SF? I guess you learn something new every day. Not that I'm surprised. It is San Francisco after all.
Cool thread.
I'll just say that when you're guessing how many 9" or more members there are that not all those men are willing to jump in bed with women, some might be gay. Even then they could be too shy or whatever to jump in bed with a girl.
I know four people (including myself) that I know and are all above average (at least 7"). We all live within walking distance from each other too. I mean like a two to five minute walk.
I've always thought that's a bit strange, unless hung guys attract or somethin lol. Or there's somethin in the water
I'll just say that when you're guessing how many 9" or more members there are that not all those men are willing to jump in bed with women, some might be gay. Even then they could be too shy or whatever to jump in bed with a girl.
I know four people (including myself) that I know and are all above average (at least 7"). We all live within walking distance from each other too. I mean like a two to five minute walk.
I've always thought that's a bit strange, unless hung guys attract or somethin lol. Or there's somethin in the water
Someone , i think , in this thread mentioned it might be a good idea if some men with big penises matched up with some female sizequeens or females with deep vaginas. There is no way i know to either match or search this arrangement. The internet isn't very useful. The ads run by men get few or fake responses. The ads run by females get hundreds of fake responses. So if this situation exists { and it exists to some extent } there is no solution unless somebody knows a way.