Kissing - A Deal Breaker?

[blkbro510]

That's one thing I don't understand from folks who don't kiss, its like saying "I don't want to walk". Yes I have dumped folks for not kissing.

I'll excuse you for not sucking my dick, but not locking lips you got to go!

 

[Rob_81]

I don't like tongue either that much because it feels weird. Making is fun and all, but not all the time.

 

[Bbucko]

A crummy kisser is a shitty lay: end of story.

Kissing is mandatory.

 

[hud01]

If your lover didn't like kissing, would it be a deal breaker for you?

I've found that I really really fucking hate kissing with tongue.

Sounds to me like you really aren't sexually attracted to the people you are with. You can get me hard faster by kis
sing me, than by sucking on my dick.

 

[louielouie82]

A crummy kisser is a shitty lay: end of story.

Kissing is mandatory.

I've found this to be very true. People who are way too reserved when they kiss are just rigid and no fun in bed. Guys who have been insanely aggressive with their tongues while kissing me are rough or domineering to the point it's not fun in the sack. Somewhere in the middle is where it's at. People who sort of feel out and adapt to your style of kissing are the best lovers... they figure out what you like, and mould themselves to what pleasures you.

 

[B_thickjohnny]

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A crummy kisser is a shitty lay: end of story.

Kissing is mandatory.

I've found this to be very true. People who are way too reserved when they kiss are just rigid and no fun in bed. Guys who have been insanely aggressive with their tongues while kissing me are rough or domineering to the point it's not fun in the sack. Somewhere in the middle is where it's at. People who sort of feel out and adapt to your style of kissing are the best lovers... they figure out what you like, and mould themselves to what pleasures you.

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So true. When my ex and I first met we kissed but he didn't like any "passionate" kissing, like when in bed building up to sex or during sex. It eventually went completely away completely. I'm a kisser. I want to kiss my partner - and not just the on-the-cheek kiss. Yes, it would be a deal killer if I knew ahead of time that the guy doesn't like kissing.

 

[Bimanhung]

Love to kiss. It's a turn off if someone doesn't want to do it. If I'm good enough to eat your pussy or suck your cock, then I'm good enough to kiss you

 

[Bbucko]

I've found this to be very true. People who are way too reserved when they kiss are just rigid and no fun in bed. Guys who have been insanely aggressive with their tongues while kissing me are rough or domineering to the point it's not fun in the sack. Somewhere in the middle is where it's at. People who sort of feel out and adapt to your style of kissing are the best lovers... they figure out what you like, and mould themselves to what pleasures you.

So true. When my ex and I first met we kissed but he didn't like any "passionate" kissing, like when in bed building up to sex or during sex. It eventually went completely away completely. I'm a kisser. I want to kiss my partner - and not just the on-the-cheek kiss. Yes, it would be a deal killer if I knew ahead of time that the guy doesn't like kissing.

Last summer I was up late cruising Manhunt online when I got approached by a stunningly beautiful man: a total home run, matching all criteria and preferences (at least his profile did)

I rode my bicycle over the 1.2 miles to his place, but it being mid-summer in FtL, I was soaked with perspiration (clean: I'd just showered) by the time I'd arrived. He answered the door, gave me the once-over and bid me step just inside, when he disappeared with a couple of bath towels.

This is pretty odd, as I've rarely if ever met a man who objected to my sweaty body, but did as he requested and began patting most of it off. Unfortunately his place wasn't air conditioned enough to chill me, so I continued to sweat no matter how much I wiped or patted: I was in free-flow for minutes, during which we had a rather stilted, entirely non-sexual conversation during which he remained fully dressed. He made it clear that he wouldn't touch me til I was dry, and after maybe 15 minutes (and a bottle of water) no longer glistened (though I was still moist, for sure).

Finally dry enough to touch, I gave him a hug and began swatting his ass through his shorts, at which he recoiled. I'm not sure what part of "Dominant, aggressive non-versatile top seeks powerbottom for fun and play" (the headline on my profile, with a checklist that includes everything but "looking for relationship") he failed to understand, but I was feeling quite apprehensive about continuing.

The ultimate killer was when he refused to kiss (which is on the checklist, BTW). I pulled the jeans up from my knees, grabbed my soaked wife-beater and left without saying another word.

Love to kiss. It's a turn off if someone doesn't want to do it. If I'm good enough to eat your pussy or suck your cock, then I'm good enough to kiss you

Precisely!

 

[erratic]

Kissing is key, but if I had the choice between a great guy who doesn't like kissing and an asshole who loves kissing I'd stick with the former.

 

[B_cockluv10]

I have 2 bfs right now. One likes to kiss and the other one doesn't. They're very different sexually and I really like sex with both of them. It would be impossible to say which I prefer.

 

[B_625girth]

there's a time to kiss and a time to fuck, and a time to kiss after. I had a gal that would give you a few pecks on the lips before fucking, and then afterwards, would smother you in kisses. one extreme to the other, never bothered me.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

I make exceptions for straight guys I'm servicing. But if it's another gay dude, then yeah kissing is a requirement. Some military guys have a problem with it but most everyone else likes to kiss.

 

[big_tits4big_dicks]

Hmmm. It's been so long since I have made out with anyone I guess I don't really care. Make out sessions seem so high school to me. I like kisses I guess, but most guys I have ever kissed think it's a contest and I feel like my face is being eaten. My husband is a nice kisser, I guess I just usually kiss down south

 

[lislndr]

I love kissing... and I'd hate if my partner didn't. So I guess it would be a deal breaker.

 

[LaFemme]

Dealbreaker for me. I love kissing, and as so many have mentioned before - it's intimate and erotic. I could make out for hours.... and yes, if I'm good enough to suck your cock, then I am definitely good enough to kiss!

 

[AM_092]

You have two boyfriends?!?!?! Can't you spare me one?

 

[Notthe7]

Yes, and it rather bothers me when men don't like kissing.
I love doing it... all day all night...
A great kisser is different for every person, but it really gets me thinking about a guy... if he can kiss well.

 

[unzipped]

yeah, kissing -- hot lips smothering each other... tongues searing and probing deep as your hands roam over the parts........ feeling the skin warm to the caresses........ yeah, kissing... a must for this uniformed guy.......

 

[shortybadunk]

Yes I love kissing more than anything. I think it's wonderful before any other sexual encounter. A great kiss is more special than anything else to me, and a bad kiss pretty much means bad in every other senario!!