Kissing In A Couple

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Hi everyone,

There have already been a thread here about being in a couple without having sex. In a similar way, let's say you have sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend, with whom you kiss, but you never french kiss ? Or you french kiss, but that kiss is not good, it makes you no effect ?

Would you be in that kind of relationship ?

Any comments are welcome !
 
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My partner and I, neither of us enjoy french kissing. I've been with people who liked it in the past, so I would with them some. I'm thankful that my sweetie dislikes it too. Makes it easier. We kiss a lot, just no saliva swapping :p
 
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My partner and I, neither of us enjoy french kissing. I've been with people who liked it in the past, so I would with them some. I'm thankful that my sweetie dislikes it too. Makes it easier. We kiss a lot, just no saliva swapping :p

Was it a turn off for you with your ex partners ?
 

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My first partner hated to kiss. No french kissing, no peck on the lips. Nothing. I was lucky to kiss him on his cheek a few times. In the 7 years we were together, I could count the number of kisses between us on one hand. I think his hatred of kissing was because of his parents divorcing when he was young. His dad left his mom for a much younger woman. Later on, he did the same thing to me, he left me for a much younger guy. The no kissing didn't bother me until I met my next 2 boyfriends. They both loved to kiss and I learned how much fun it is and what it meant to me. I couldn't date a person who didn't like to kiss, it is too important to me.
 
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having a good old snog is very important to me, French kissing can be done very badly (too much force, too much spit) so would depend on the partner, but if both in tune with each other that is also very pleasurable too.
 

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Thanks for your answers everyone. It really depends on the person as I see. For my part, I'm not so much experimented in that department. I've seen 2 guys, both for +-4 dates, and the kisses were so good, the feeling it gave me was highly significant. Then I met my actual boyfriend, which I am with for now almost 2 years, but the kissing isn't there. He doesn't like frenching, he feels "invades" and everytime I try and he rejects me (he gently closes his teeth on my tongue) I feel like he doesn't want to open himself to me and I start questioning myself if this is the kind of relationship I want as a couple.

I know, I need more communication with him.
 

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In my previous relationships I’ve realised (not straight away) that I’ve stopped enjoying French kissing when I’ve stopped being so attractive to my partner. The physical attraction usually ceased or diminished when my needs weren’t being met... just simple things like not doing thoughtful or nice for me (when I do so many) and feeling like I’m being taken for granted.

I love French kissing and I love that feeling of passion. I get scared that it’s always something that will fade.... but I have hope it won’t :)
 
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To me, kissing opens the flood gates to intimacy, whether it is leading to casual sex or to in a loving relationship.

I was in an 11-year swinging relationship. Every time we got together with others, French kissing with the guy or gal flipped her switch and ignited the flames of her passion, and made her pussy juice. She was lots of fun and a great lover for me and for others that we swung with.

After that I was in a two-year relationship with a woman who did not like kissing, at least that was what she told me. The only time we kissed was goodnight, when I dropped her off at her house. Then it was a two-second dry kiss on the lips. Even though she wore low cut blouses that showed a lot of her breasts, we never became intimate. While we were dating, she would never go on an overnight trip with me. On our final evening together just before I put her on the plane to return to her home country, we had a thirty-minute French kissing session in my hotel room that fantastic, but no time to move on to more intimate actions. It was too little too late. Or, perhaps it was her way of showing me what might be possible.

The month after she got home she went on a one-week vacation in Bali with an old boyfriend. So, I dumped her.

This year I met a fantastic gal; we French kissed in the middle of the second date; she came home and spent the night with me after the third date; and we got married after six months together. Best decision I have made in a long time. And, she loves to kiss.
 

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Shiiiit.....
Try and stop me & my girl from kissing. Lol.
First thing in the morning. Last thing at night. Randomly throughout the day.
Making out on the couch. Of course, during sex.
My baby's kisses get me hard.
No way I'd give it up