Kissing? Ladies, how important?

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New guy here, ladies. I find that most maybe all women love kissing. How important is a great kisser to you in the scheme of things?
 

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It's absolutely vital.

Nothing gets me in the mood better than a really good kiss. It's got to be a lovely, slow, deep lip locked kiss rather than those boring series of pecks.

Some men, often the younger, too eager ones, seem to think that the art of a good kiss involves sucking off all of the make-up from the bottom half of my face - that's NOT good!
 

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It's absolutely vital.

Nothing gets me in the mood better than a really good kiss. It's got to be a lovely, slow, deep lip locked kiss rather than those boring series of pecks.

Some men, often the younger, too eager ones, seem to think that the art of a good kiss involves sucking off all of the make-up from the bottom half of my face - that's NOT good!
Oh Denise thats funny..........:tongue:
 

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For me kissing is the alpha & the omega of sex. Sex without kisses to bookend the act would be impossible for me. I just can't imagine. I have had more than one man turn my frown upside down with some uberhot and fire stoking kisses. Next thing I know we're knocking boots and my bad day at work is forgotten.:smile:


If you couldn't have both, would you choose an average cock and great kisser over a monster with bad kissing skills?

I would absolutely choose an average cock and great kisser over a monster with bad kissing skills!
 

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For me kissing is the alpha & the omega of sex. Sex without kisses to bookend the act would be impossible for me. I just can't imagine. I have had more than one man turn my frown upside down with some uberhot and fire stoking kisses. Next thing I know we're knocking boots and my bad day at work is forgotten.:smile:

I have always been told I am the best kisser (ego alert). I have had wonderful experiences with women but the thing they always remember and comment on is the kissing. I have felt women kinda simply melt with the right kiss and their skin begin to warm in a moment as you describe njqt466 (why the 466?).

Practically every lady thinks she is a good kisser. Not true, some get it and some don't.

What is it about a tender kiss that starts the fire? I know a porn movie is fake when the starlet isn't kissed and gets turned on.. Like you said, women must have kiss to feel the heat I think.
 

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The slow deep sensual kisses make me melt and a fire might be an understatement after that. What about tongue usage during kissing? Any input on that?
 

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I am a huge believer in kissing, love it!

Bad breath is a deal-breaker though...I briefly dated a total sweetheart in college who's breath was kickin like Bruce Lee. She must have had the worst case of halitosis on the planet, it was like she had a dead animal stashed in her throat. The worst was catching a BJ at about 10 pm and smelling her breath on my dick at home at 1am.

Hygiene, gum, breathmints...use em...

...OB
 

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I am a huge believer in kissing, love it!

Bad breath is a deal-breaker though...I briefly dated a total sweetheart in college who's breath was kickin like Bruce Lee. She must have had the worst case of halitosis on the planet, it was like she had a dead animal stashed in her throat. The worst was catching a BJ at about 10 pm and smelling her breath on my dick at home at 1am.

Hygiene, gum, breathmints...use em...

...OB

I just wanted to respond to this... If a man has not recently smoked and generally keeps his mouth clean, I much prefer kissing and tasting their natural "flavor" than a barrage of mint and/or cinnamon. The key is keeping your mouth and teeth clean and cared for, and making sure you don't have dry mouth. Regular brushing, flossing, dental care, and staying hydrated are all important. I agree that nasty stinkbreath is a total turn-off, though.
 

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Yup, important. How someone use their lips and hands say a lot about them. Seducing the Valkyrie goes something like this:

- Display of intellect and verbally agile enough to make me interested in exploring you further. I'll probably signal interest by moving in closer, most likely lightly touching you.
- Soft and gentle, yet firm touch - I detest pushing, poking, prodding, squeezing. I want to feel your hands on me, but don't grab me at this stage.
- Kissing comes next. Soft lips - I don't like it when you tense up. Put some feeling into it - I don't mind a bit of tongue, but don't push it in like you're trying to suffocate me, play with it, tease me a bit, make me return it to you.
- If we're this far into the game and I like what I've received so far, all sorts of other possibilities open up... :biggrin1:
 

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Yup, important. How someone use their lips and hands say a lot about them. Seducing the Valkyrie goes something like this:

- Display of intellect and verbally agile enough to make me interested in exploring you further. I'll probably signal interest by moving in closer, most likely lightly touching you.
- Soft and gentle, yet firm touch - I detest pushing, poking, prodding, squeezing. I want to feel your hands on me, but don't grab me at this stage.
- Kissing comes next. Soft lips - I don't like it when you tense up. Put some feeling into it - I don't mind a bit of tongue, but don't push it in like you're trying to suffocate me, play with it, tease me a bit, make me return it to you.
- If we're this far into the game and I like what I've received so far, all sorts of other possibilities open up... :biggrin1:

I can tell you know how to kiss!! You get it. Wow!
 

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Monica: What you guys don't understand is, for us, kissing is as important as any part of it.
Joey: Yeah, right!... Y'serious?
Phoebe: Oh, yeah!
Rachel: Everything you need to know is in that first kiss.
Monica: Absolutely.
Chandler: Yeah, I think for us, kissing is pretty much like an opening act, y'know? I mean it's like the stand-up comedian you have to sit through before Pink Floyd comes out.
Ross: Yeah, and-and it's not that we don't like the comedian, it's that-that... that's not why we bought the ticket.
Chandler: The problem is, though, after the concert's over, no matter how great the show was, you girls are always looking for the comedian again, y'know? I mean, we're in the car, we're fighting traffic... basically just trying to stay awake.
Rachel: Yeah, well, word of advice: Bring back the comedian. Otherwise next time you're gonna find yourself sitting at home, listening to that album alone.
Joey: [pause] ... Are we still talking about sex?
 

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Kissing is the biggest turn off for me, I think I have a phobia of kissing, I'd much rather suck dick than kiss. There is no better way to kill the mood than to try and makeout with me, beware.... I will bite.
 

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Kissing is the biggest turn off for me, I think I have a phobia of kissing, I'd much rather suck dick than kiss. There is no better way to kill the mood than to try and makeout with me, beware.... I will bite.

Is kissing a turn off at all times? My wife doesn't really like to kiss during foreplay and sex but likes to kiss when there is no chance of sex happening.

If you would rather give blowjobs than kiss, you will make a lot of men very happy.
 

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Hate it any time... don't even suggest kissing me... I gag when I see people kiss, even in movies. It just grosses me out... I've had a few partners seeing as I'm only 18... but none have tried to kiss me, after I warned them they weren't getting any if they tried.