OH i dont know of any good things other than body language that shows you are highly attracted to her. Give her a little bit of physical affection so she knows you are interested. Because its weird when you think the guy just wants to be friends because he is so reserved or shy and then busts out a kiss out of know where. I'd say go with the natural flow of showing you are getting into her....lots of eye contact, physical closeness, some gum.
OH i dont know of any good things other than body language that shows you are highly attracted to her. Give her a little bit of physical affection so she knows you are interested. Because its weird when you think the guy just wants to be friends because he is so reserved or shy and then busts out a kiss out of know where. I'd say go with the natural flow of showing you are getting into her....lots of eye contact, physical closeness, some gum.
useally my goal on the first date is to get her attracted enough to want to kiss me. if i have not done this or wait till for more dates i feel this could be bad because it could be saying im scared.
is it a good goal to have to get the kiss out of the way on the first date?[/QUOTE] If you sense mutual attraction then by all means kiss her.Waiting could make her think she is in the friend zone. :frown1: This is a bad thing.
I disagree. Some guys send mixed signals. I kissed Tex at the end of our first date which surprised him. I later found out he hadn't planned on doing that until the 3rd date. If I hadn't kissed him there is a good chance there wouldn't have been a 3rd date.:frown1:I don't know that a kiss on the first date should be a "goal". If you have to kiss her to let her know you're interested, then you're doing something wrong. lol