I'm sorry that you feel that way, Trentster, but I'm really just not that into him in the first place. With the way that my body works right now, there is absolutely no way that he's going to be able to make me orgasm. It's not a "hardcore preference" thing. It's a lack of coming. I have sex to get off, and while all the muscles and the pretty face and whatnot are optional, that's not, not with the way that my body currently is.
I'd rather not sleep with him than sleep with him and pretend to fake an orgasm, or sleep with him and -not- pretend to fake an orgasm and have him feel inadequate. We've since discussed that I'm not going to sleep with him (though not my reasons behind it), and while it makes him... fussy, I don't think he minds too much.
Furthermore, he likes me a lot more than I like him, and since I found out around last week that he still has his V-card, I'm very glad I made that decision. I have enough boys' virginity already.