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Nope, 100% kidding about the massive peen. Massive peen take a lot of time and effort to accommodate. Despite what porn and some LPSG dudes tell you, the vagina is not a bottomless pit.

Most of my sex life has been sans peen. I didn't miss it. There is a great man in my life now, he's amazing with the sexing because of everything other that penis than I listed.
 

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Along with what @MickeyLee described, I want to be able to pick up on how much he's enjoying the experience.

Show appreciation for my body, express in some subtle way that I'm blowing *your* mind...

ETA: and yeah... I agree with her totally about size being irrelevant.
 
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Nope, 100% kidding about the massive peen. Massive peen take a lot of time and effort to accommodate. Despite what porn and some LPSG dudes tell you, the vagina is not a bottomless pit.

Most of my sex life has been sans peen. I didn't miss it. There is a great man in my life now, he's amazing with the sexing because of everything other that penis than I listed.

So I shouldn't pick up my sexual cues from Porn?! Lol. Thank you for the feedback!
 

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Along with what @MickeyLee described, I want to be able to pick up on how much he's enjoying the experience.

Show appreciation for my body, express in some subtle way that I'm blowing *your* mind...

ETA: and yeah... I agree with her totally about size being irrelevant.

I always spent so much time concentrating on how I'm making her feel, I never considered letting her know how she is making me feel! Good tip.
 

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I always spent so much time concentrating on how I'm making her feel, I never considered letting her know how she is making me feel! Good tip.

While I understand that for some men it may seem like a necessity to make it "all about her pleasure", it seems they don't realize that by doing that they're still making it about themselves and how amazing of a lay they are. At least that's how it can come off imo

I don't mean to be harsh, but that's some honesty for ya.

Sex is a shared experience. The pleasure/satisfaction should be given and taken from all parties participating.
 
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While I understand that for some men it may seem like a necessity to make it "all about her pleasure", it seems they don't realize that by doing that they're still making it about themselves and how amazing of a lay they are. At least that's how it can come off imo

I don't mean to be harsh, but that's some honesty for ya.

Sex is a shared experience. The pleasure/satisfaction should be given and taken from all parties participating.


Not harsh at all. That's why I asked! That's the feedback I was hoping for.
 
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While I understand that for some men it may seem like a necessity to make it "all about her pleasure", it seems they don't realize that by doing that they're still making it about themselves and how amazing of a lay they are. At least that's how it can come off imo

I don't mean to be harsh, but that's some honesty for ya.

Sex is a shared experience. The pleasure/satisfaction should be given and taken from all parties participating.
That is very true! That is what is going on in my relationship at the moment. He finds it very difficult to just lie back and let me do the sex to him, and I'm trying to find different approaches and different ways of addressing that. I think some individuals, and some relationships are exempt from there being mutuality, or an equality of this kind in their sex lives; it's not for everyone. I used to veer more towards this myself I think, prior to my current relationship. Of course we have spoken about this, and he has said that he is happy with the way things are, and he really likes it when I give him amateur massages after sex, but this doesn't fulfil my need to try to make him feel the way he makes me feel. Sometimes he will humour me and let me put his penis in my mouth though :D.
 

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Kind of kidding about the peen? Lol
Penis is 10% of good sex, size of penis is 10% of that

So a big penis is basically 1% of sex - and that's spoken as an honest size queen.
 
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What makes my man good in bed is that he is turned on by my enjoyment and arousal. He is a lot kinder and gentler than he likes other people to know. He also prides himself on being able to fix absolutely anything (as long as it is not made out of wood), so I think he has had a lifelong obsession with finding out how vaginas work.
 

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What makes my man good in bed is that he is turned on by my enjoyment and arousal. He is a lot kinder and gentler than he likes other people to know. He also prides himself on being able to fix absolutely anything (as long as it is not made out of wood), so I think he has had a lifelong obsession with finding out how vaginas work.

Increase your knowledge of female anatomy. Learn about fornixi, learn about how her cycle alters her vagina and arousal, learn about angles of penetration. Don't go in like a medical doctor, but a healthy knowledge of what goes where helps heaps.
 
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Increase your knowledge of female anatomy. Learn about fornixi, learn about how her cycle alters her vagina and arousal, learn about angles of penetration. Don't go in like a medical doctor, but a healthy knowledge of what goes where helps heaps.
I don't think he's read any medical textbooks. Perhaps if Voltswagen published a vagina manual he would read it though. He's really bloody good, and I think that he's got that way by having lots of practice, LISTENING to what women tell him, and genuinely being interested in their enjoyment. No-one has ever been able to figure out how I work, or what makes my vagina tick like he has. To be honest, I don't think I even knew. For many years I just thought I was one of those women who didn't have orgasms from sex regularly, reliably, and predictably. Particularly not penis sex with a penis.

One point I would like to add, for the op, is that in the past men in general have managed to psychologically turn me off and put me off having sex with them just by casual sexism.

I just spoke to my partner on the phone, (he's on a course). Scrap some of the other stuff I just said. He says that he learnt his exceptional vagina skills by instinct and watching women's faces during sex. I'm going to feel so self conscious now i know he's looking at my face and not any of my other bits during sex :oops:.
 
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Contouring the vagina helps hide the teeth.
*giggles about clit highlighter*
Something has just clicked in my brain! I think I now know what vajazzles are about. I'm going to spend all day on Wednesday glueing swarovski crystals to my ladybits. That is sure to distract him from my weird sex faces and the mole on the left side of my chin that sometimes has a hair growing out of it.
 
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That is a fantastic idea! I remember him telling me that he really liked the laser show at the last car launch he went to.