I have only been a member of this site for a week or so, and it has been an eye opening experience. I have read a lot of opinions on this site about how people label others gay or str8. It all seems to focus on what physical acts a person has done, and the gender of there partner. Example is a guy lets another guy blow him... then he is labeled gay, or if a guy fucks another guy he is considered by most to be gay. I don't see it that way. I saw a thread on here about a guy who fucked a watermelon or something like that. So does that mean that guy is a melonsexual? Or did this guy just find a way to get off. I would venture to say that if a man were blindfolded he would NOT be able to tell the difference between a mans mouth and a womans mouth. My point is I don't believe that what a person is willing to do for physical enjoyment is how you label a persons sexual orientation. I think that it has more to do with what you are attracted to, and if you could love a person of the same sex. I really think that a persons orientation is determined by an emotional connection. Not a physical one. I would only label a person as gay if that person could accept being in a loving intimate relationship with a man the same way a str8 man loves a woman. I am curious to see what kind of repsonses I get to this thread. I do think that the anonymity of a computer will allow for more honest answers.