labia drag

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  1. grandunification

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    I read an article once at Wikipedia about how if a penis is thick enough it can cause the labia to rub against the clit or something like that. My question for you women then becomes, "how thick for you personally does it have to be to cause this drag"?
     
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    "The labia to rub against the clit." I assume you're talking about the inner labia, the labia minora.

    Anatomically, this doesn't seem likely, as a woman's labia minora are posterior to her clitoris(which is at the apex of the labia minora,where they join) and wrap around his penis during intercourse.

    I could understand how a thicker penis might cause her clitoris to point downward more, allowing it to be rubbed by the penis as he moves back and forth. Is that what you mean?
     
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    I'm fascinated by this as it swings between verified reality and urban legend.

    I'm a bit on the girthy side and I've had a fifty/fifty response to the idea of the clitoris getting more work with a thicker one.
     
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    well it sure got me intrigued. Having quite a bit of labia, I wonder ..... Ive not had a guy big enough to check that theory, but I will admit I just managed to hit my clit with my labia using my hand.... I think it would take some girth to do, absolutely. I had to stretch it up a bit, but I am thinking what you are describing is a combination of friction points that are stimulating the clitoris. Huh. I learn sometnin new every day here :tongue:
     
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    I am also intriqued, I have just checked my big cock porn collection for evidence.
    It seems to me that this only happens when the penis during penetration, is aiming for the tail bone and not the stomach. It also looks like it depends on the shape of the lips and their wetness since for the drag to happen the penis has to be thick enough to make the top of the lips roll in towards the vagina.
    I saw a Lexington Steele clip where it looked like it was occuring, He's probably between 6" and 7" in girth.
     
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    I know that mine sometimes gets like stuck against itself... if I'm not lubed enough... it kinda can hurt depending on how fast I'm being fucked.... it feels like lol it's being dragged against the cock..
     
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    ... and friction can cause a fire. If you're excited by the prospect of a threesome with Smokey the Bear, then have at it.
     
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    If there is so much friction that penetration is causing her clit to get sucked in, it probably hurts more than it pleases her. I'm pretty sure that's accurate.
     
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    The labia and the clit are the same thing, or more accurately, they're part of the same thing - they're connected. The labia are the clit's legs. And so to answer your question, hell yes if a guy is thick enough to tug on my labia, I feel it all along my clitoral apparatus :biggrin1: !
     
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    This would be a question for our old friend, Stud_Hunter. I remember her being particularly into dicks that tug and drag over her labia, which made her cum very hard. The circumference for this to occur should be somewhere shortly behind 6" for me, personally, though I'm not sure whether it's just friction over the labia, or friction between clit and labia that causes the stimulation with me.
     
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    Instead of spreading your legs to let a guy in close them and have him straddle you. Obviously you need a guy with reasonably long dick to be able to reach your vagina. I've found its a great way to fuck a woman who doesn't havy a deep enough vagina. Also, as I thrust, my shaft rubs against their clit. I imagine a certain amount of girth is required too.
    Any ladies ever try this?
     
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    I'm bumping this thread rather than starting a new one. I know I could've posted it on the "Large clitoris, easier orgasm?" thread, but this is slightly different.

    I came across this article this morning:

    The Observer - Labia elongation: Invaluable culture or dangerous practice?

    and thought it was an interesting perspective on the labia minora. I had heard of the practice before, but never written in an African newspaper.
     
  13. dolfette

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    i'm just here to point out the obvious.

    if you tug on the inner lips, it pulls the hood over the clit.
    release and it rolls back.
    repeat and you have a clit being wanked by it's own hood.

    cock girth is not the only factor.
    a girl with long lips will get more drag, as they tend to get pushed inside.
    there is more drag when dry then when lubed.
     
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    As the owner of a thin cock I notice how little the labia are tugged during thrusting when I have intercouse.

    When I see porn of women being fucked by thick ones I notice how much movement there is in the labia. They are rythmically pushed in and pulled out by their friction against the shaft.

    I have read that that movement indiectly stimulates the clitoral structure.
     
  15. The Dragon

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    for gods sake!

    My index finger is 8 cms long and *sigh* not that big in girth!
    It reaches my G-spot and my clit..I have multi-orgasms.
    Get the fuck over yourselves!

    Your dick is fine....if my teeny weeny index finger can get the job done your <insert what ever fucking measurement you are> dick can possibly do the job!
     
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  16. dolfette

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    truth.
    two fingers feels just fine.
     
  17. RawDog

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    That's sort of like if I was uncircumcised and me fucking you being like jacking myself off inside your vagina if I'm onbly sliding in and out of my foreskin.

    Unbelievably, the obvious to you may not be obvious to everyone. I for one never realized an uncut dick actually can do that inside a vagina until two years ago. The concept of labia *anything* having to do with sexual pleasure is a recent (roughly 5 years now) discovery for me.


    It may play 3% into getting a woman off, but there is no such thing as TMI when it comes to a woman's pleasure. If sticking a tens unit butt plug up my ass can get you off (and I absolutely hate anal), I'll make damned sure and try that if it can give you more pleasure. By the way, I'm in no way being altruistic with that philosophy. The more pleasure I can offer, the greater the chance you'd want to fuck more often. Score big time for me.

    MY wife hates when it gets dragged in when it's dry. Fells more like an Indian Burn for her.

    I think I should've just created a new thread about labia tugging than revive this old one. You may be right about labia drag being independent of girth, or even labia size being independent of drag, but I'm much more interested in labia drag/labia size being a factor in sexual pleasure.

    I think my dick is perfectly fine the way it is. But, if I had a bigger unit, I'd have (we'd have) more to play with. That's my main motivation behind me wanting to have a bigger wang through PE. I'm not saying women all over should start tugging. I just wonder how conceptually valid the motivation behind tugging is.

    Why not one? Or three?
     
  18. B_crackoff

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    Now that this has been mentioned, I have to say that I've found women who's pussies resembled a badly packed kebab have always gotten off more, & far quicker. They've always been a lot more lubricated.

    I've no idea if a larger surface area causes more pleasure, because there's no evidence that there are more nerve endings, but from now on, if I hear a woman walking quickly & giving herself a round of applause from beween her legs, I'll know that she's a goer!:smile:

    I know that some women, & men, find that having lips that hang down like the mouth of a tired dog (& I've seen labia that hang down at least 2 inches when excited), is not very attractive. But I think you can't beat a bit more meat.:biggrin1:


    How about a fist? 10 is fun too - far easier in a 69 position.
     
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    Preach it...Testify...
     
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    The example given in the article was of a young minor girl threatened with shame and bodily harm if she did not have the procedure done. And the herbal remedy used caused pain and swelling that caused her to walk splay-legged.

    There must be other ways to get the desired effect, and it would be better if it were not compulsory for all girls.
     
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