Lack Of Ejaculation

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I know as some men get older their volume decreases. Mine has compleatly stopped. I know some of the problem is due to meds ( testosterone replacement and pain killers ). I use HGC to keep my balls from athropy but I am still at a loss of why their is no ejaculate. I still orgasum but do not cum. Not a big deal to some but it bothers me that I can't shoot a load. Any ideas?
 
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I know as some men get older their volume decreases. Mine has compleatly stopped. I know some of the problem is due to meds ( testosterone replacement and pain killers ). I use HGC to keep my balls from athropy but I am still at a loss of why their is no ejaculate. I still orgasum but do not cum. Not a big deal to some but it bothers me that I can't shoot a load. Any ideas?

Preaching to the choir, Mate! I Type II diabetic and 75 y.o. Just started injections in order to get hard. Pills do not help. A neuropathist I am seeing mentioned HCG, but it is very expensive and a controlled substance. My urologist says to drink lots of water and reduce sugars and soft drinks. I do shoot a wee bit. I know your frustration. Age sucks, really.
 
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Early 60’s and I can not ejaculate during sex. Pills keep me hard but I can’t reach orgasm. We will screw until wife had enough of me inside her.
Then withdraw and struggle to stroke out a load. Many times I give up without cumming. Could be a week since I ejaculated but almost like cock is numb.
 
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Early 60’s and I can not ejaculate during sex. Pills keep me hard but I can’t reach orgasm. We will screw until wife had enough of me inside her.
Then withdraw and struggle to stroke out a load. Many times I give up without cumming. Could be a week since I ejaculated but almost like cock is numb.

See "itsAll4Kim" remark above. I agree. If you have not seen a doctor, you should. You may have prostate issues that should NOT be delayed.
 

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Sounds like retrograde ejaculation to me. Have a read of this link below (it's at the bottom of the page on that link). I'd ask to see a urologist to confirm? Have you got diabetes? Are you on an alpha blocker for blood pressure? Any previous prostate surgery?

Ejaculation problems
 
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I find I cum best when I see another guy shooting so not sure where my desire lies anymore. Although I get super turned on by sex

Well, since I have been gay for 50+ years I love to see guys shooting their milk seed. And, doing lots of other things of course. :imp:
 

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A little younger than you guys but thought I’d weigh in, I’m on trt since 42 so about 2 years now, I’ve never been a big shooter and I’m still not, maybe a teaspoon a pop, little more if it’s been awhile but I usually jerk daily. But just to weigh in on trt and ejaculate, I’ve not noticed a decrease, balls have atrophied some and doubt I’m making a lot of swimmers anymore but that’s a good thing for me as the wife is not on BC, but sperm is actually a very small part of what makes up ejaculatory fluid or your load. Jus thought I’d weigh in
 
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I've been working with my urologist on my problem. He is stumped as he can't find anything wrong since treating me for a benign pituitary tumor and low testosterone. I used to be a big shooter with large volume and respectable distance. I measured out at 1/3 cup in my 20's. Now at 41, I can barely dribble out half a teaspoon. In my teens and 20s, I had sex daily. Until my late 30's, I usually masturbated every day until I started experiencing some dysfunction at 39, which was the tumor and low T. Even with that, I could still have an orgasm. I see my doctors regularly to keep check on things. I do kegals. I've learned how to separate and work each individual muscle in that area. I thought my squirt would come back even if the volume didn't.
 

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Mine are so erratic, sometimes I have no problem and shoot like a rocket. Then there are time when I don’t jerk off for 3 day thinking my loads gonna be good and I cum like I have jerked off 5 times in the last two hours after a 3 days of abstinence. And I’m like what the F. I wonder if it’s mental with me?
 

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Mine are so erratic, sometimes I have no problem and shoot like a rocket. Then there are time when I don’t jerk off for 3 day thinking my loads gonna be good and I cum like I have jerked off 5 times in the last two hours after a 3 days of abstinence. And I’m like what the F. I wonder if it’s mental with me?
Do you edge or just jerk till ya squirt? If I edge several times and delay my squirt, it will sometimes be a little more than a quickie yank. Also, hydrate before with water.
 
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You guys are educating me. I never knew TRT could cause you to have a hard time cuming. I've been on it for years and I can cum from jacking off but find it really hard to cum from penetration, unless i add some type of anal stimulation.
It's very frustrating and I just chalked it up to being 69 years old. Spoke to my urologist about it but he didn't have any answers.
 
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I don’t think it does, not from my experience and have talked to guys on it that are also on HCG and their results are exactly the opposite, they are shooting porn star ropes. For me, I believe it’s just genetic, never shot far or much, even in my 20s, I do have 3 kids tho and could knock up my wife just by looking at her funny, haha
 

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I had an appointment with the uro doc yesterday. It seems I may be experiencing retrograde ejaculations. I went through the ultrasounds of my genitals and they found nothing out of the ordinary. One of the few times I've heard that and felt good about it. Anyway, he suggested cutting sugar from my drinks, no sodas, no caffeine, and more water. I have been cutting sugars and sodas out. Caffeine I have been keeping up but will start cutting it down and eventually out of my diet. I drink to much water now. I keep myself up peeing all night. So he recommended no fluids three hours before bedtime.
 

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So, I’ve noticed in the last week, I’ve become a shooter. At 32, I rarely ever shot when I orgasmed. I’ve always been a gusher. But the last five times I’ve rubbed one out, I’ve shot a couple heafty streams. Even on a day I masturbated a couple times, i shot both times. Anyone experience this also? Nothings really changed with my diet. I’ve actually been eating worse these past couple weeks. Lol