Just wondered if there's something medically wrong with me? Just that the rest of my body is uber sensitive. I'm really tickley and even gently rubbing a finger over me can send me in shivers or giggles from being tickley. I love getting my neck bitten/sloppy kissed but as soon as I get head I feel nothing, no pleasure or tingling or anything. But this can change if a certain spot is pleasured, where it's almost like my body goes into overload then shuts down blood flow to the area. The only way I can describe is when you first masturbated, how there was a huge new orgasmic feeling mixed with the desire to pee, but this is much more intense -well more intense than i remember my "first time" 7years a go!! So aye, bf just crap at giving or what? Even when jacking off I dont feel anything "good" untill i actually spurt. Also, whats the views of bedtime baby oil as lube? I still suffer from nerves so can also lose things that way =[ But even by myself I struggle to get it up, it's designed to help the baby to sleep so recon there may be a muscle relaxent or something in it. Also I doubt it can be good for the condom like vaseline.