Forgive the infomercial-esque title. So I am a big guy (About 375lb.) and I am average height (5'8") I am about 7"x6" but when I am limp, meaning just chilling out on a normal day, I am about 2-3 inches because of the puff of fat. So I don't have a good bulge. Not to mention my stomach distracts from it when I do end up hard. Does anyone else have this problem?