Ladies - A Question that has been bothering me

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  1. les123

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    Hi ladies,
    A question that has been bothering me for a number of years.
    My best friends wife, a sexy lady and I were really great friends but never had any type of physical relationship nor even considered this.
    We were both very open about talking about sexuality and issues and there were no secrets between us. (I knew about her extramarital affairs but always remained silent and never mentioned these facts to anyone)
    I had see her braless, topless and in many stages of undress over many years buit there was never any physical contact due to the friendship with her hubby.
    One evening while on a weekend away break (A foursome) she was laying on the bed in my hotel room while my wife was in the shower. (This was where she came to smoke as her hubby was an anti smoke fanatic)
    I was dressed in a white towelling robe waiting to get dressed to go out. I leaned over to light her cigarette and my gown fell open revealing my entire manhood. She - as far as I know had never seen me before.
    Her reaction was
    Her whole body shuddered very violently, she went pale and closed her eyes as if she was dizzy. Her hand shook as she lay there for quite a few minutes - as if catching her breath and calming down.

    Was this an orgasm?
    Without any physical contact
    I'd love to really know the answer to this that has perplexed me for many years
    Thanks
     
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  2. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Maybe she is epileptic
     
  3. les123

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    I really wanted a serious answer. No way epilelptic!
     
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    +1 It sounds like a seizure.
    If she recovered and begged you to hit it right after, then I'd say an orgasm. Otherwise, fainting + light seizure, or something similar.

    Eta: ...and I've seen quite a few amazing cocks in person, in my hands, in me - no spontaneous orgasms yet
     
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    From all ive ever known or read you can orgasm just by seeing a cock. There HAS to be some type of touching stimulation involved
     
  6. Principessa

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    Sorry dude, but my first thought was seizure as well. I don't know about y'all; but when I'm having an orgasm I'm flushed, not pale.:cool:

    No physical contact whatsoever? Unless she had on one of those bullet vibes that operates via a remote control which her hubby had the answer is no.
     
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  7. les123

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    Why a seizure.
    She never had one before and why just at the precise moment she eyed my dick?
    Remember we had an unspoken rule - never to get physically involved. That's why no hit on me - and BTW my wife was in the shower - I'd say not a good time to hit on me
    My real question is
    Can this reaction be an orgasim
     
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    I don't know about orgasm. She probably got a shock when she saw it and maybe she felt a stab of pleasure and a very strong sexual urge (maybe). But orgasm? I doubt it. BTW, I get like that (the pleasure and the urges) when I see a flat, toned stomach or a hairy, muscular chest and I am not expecting to see one, particularly when I am attracted to a guy.
     
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    On the up side les you've got a cock impressive enough to send a woman into seizure
     
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    Thanks Lee M
     
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    That would sure make sex problematic

    it definitely isn't an orgasm.

    What happened afterwards? Like what did she say?
     
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    You should have asked her, since you are good friends, and adults... But obviously, you like her not only as a friend, so you wish to find something more in her reactions... No way that was orgasm, and deep inside you know that! But it was some kind of strange reaction, for which she might have given you an answer; (perhaps the scene reminded her of some event...of something)
    In male-female relations, once you pass the invisible line and become true friends, it's hard to reverse it and develop love affairs. Women are different than us men, don't know why, but I've learned that lesson. Once they start looking you as a friend you lost all your chances to become their lover...
    My advice to you: Don't ruin good friendship.

    PS You might dislike what I said to you, but I'm just being honest...
     
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    I have had orgasms without physical stimulation. It may have been an orgasm but I have to agree with NJ about being flushed not pale.

    Also, not to be insulting, perhaps it is the opposite of being turned on. Maybe you are more like a brother to her and when she saw your cock it grossed her out.
     
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    Maybe she'd never seen anything that small before...:eek:
     
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    I am more mystified about why the OP didn't just ask her given that they both hang around each other in various states of undress and talk so freely about sex and sexuality...
     
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    Yeah, that's what I was trying to hint at, I worded it badly though
     
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    To answer the question. She said nothing at the time but some years later when we were chatting, I suggewsted that I would have loved to have made love to her and why didn't we?
    Her answer was - You Didn't ask " !
     
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    There you go, I think she answered your question in the positive.
     
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    Sounds like a wet dream on your part!:rolleyes:
     
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    If you could get this response to this question, instead of asking us what we think was going on, why didn't/don't you ask her the original question? It sounds to me as though you would have got an honest answer! I admit, I am still mystified...
     
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