ROFLMAO! I will never look at Build A Bear the same way again! :biggrin1:
The OP should've said the actual average for the good-looking guy. I've been with an average sized guy (not a 7 by 5 but real average) with Hollywood leading man good looks, and I've been with big guys who were average and even somewhat below average in looks. (but my definition of "big" here was more like a 7x6 rather than an 8x6...) They ranged from good lovers to rather bad - and no, the average sized guy was not the "rather bad"... he was actually VERY good with his hands, so he was quite good! The Asshole was big (more girth than length), below-average looking, and was terrible with his hands (penetration was good, but was painful sometimes, not so much because of his size per se - I've been with guys bigger than him since with no pain - but because he didn't arouse me beforehand.)
Who I'd pick? For the most part, I'd pick the average looking but hung guy. But the good-looking, average sized guys are not necessarily to be written off either. :smile:
However, for something long-term, what is most important to me is personality. (Although sexual compatibility is also very important, so it's really best if he's well endowed and/or very good with his hands...)