Ladies? Any tips for a 25yr old virgin?

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by someotherguy, Apr 9, 2007.

  1. someotherguy

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    That's right, 25. It's not that I'm hideous but I am really shy. But I'm starting to lose a bit of that shyness. I tried too long being someone I wasn't and am now being true to myself and on an continuing quest to be more outgoing. One other reason I was so shy was that I was always worried that my cock was too small and girls would laugh at it. I was ignorantly thinking that all cocks were like the ones I saw in porn so I felt inadequate next to those. But since I posted my first pics last week I have gotten a few compliments and know now that I'm above average.

    So I wanted to know, firstly, as women do you think I should be proud of what I'm packing? Secondly, how can I translate this newfound knowledge into real-life scenarios? How can drop hints about it without sounding, pardon the pun, cocky? How can I show women that this shy, quiet, unassuming guy is actually a man who can show them a good time sexually and is also not afraid of relationships should one develop?

    Basically, how can I get women to give me a chance to prove myself?
     
  2. SassySpy

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    Yes be proud of course. I dont think you should need to drop hints about your cock to get somewhere with a woman. The 32 year old virgin I recently returned from visiting never dropped hints or mentioned his size, and he had nothing to be ashamed of, either. Its more important to show what kind of person you are as in kindness and humour and generally being a nice guy- and the cock will soon find its way somewhere warm and welcoming. :tongue:
     
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    Quit worrying about the size of your penis.

    You should be no more "proud" of the size of your penis than you would be of the color of your hair, or how fast your fingernails grow. In all likelihood you did nothing to earn it, you just were made that way. Your intelligence, level of education, fitness, how you treat fellow human beings ... these are things to be proud of.

    Don't drop hints about the size of your penis. You'll come across as sleazy.

    Don't think of it as "proving yourself". Women tend to be incredibly, unbelievably intuitive, and that attitude will show through, and it will not be attractive.

    Find a woman you trust and admire, tell her you like her, listen to her, respect her, care about her (and I mean really care, not act like you care), and have a sincere desire to make her happy. Women (at least the ones worth having IMHO) will almost always respond to sincerity and confidence. The sex will fall into place when it falls into place.
     
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    you should just wait until you get married to have sex
     
  5. Professor_Chaos

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    Well I can see how being a 25 year old virgin would create all sorts of doubt in ones mind. Just be you and see what happens, sounds like shit advice, but its true.

    Cheers
    CHAOS
     
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