Ladies: Bareback?

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  1. B_46and2

    B_46and2 New Member

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    Throughout your sexual history how often have you had sex without protection? I'm talking about guys that you just met or just started dating. Did you tell the guy not to cum in you or did you assume that he wouldn't? Did any of the guys ask you if they could cum in you and if so did that make a difference in whether or not you allowed it?
     
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    wow, that's a hot question.
    I have been extremely lucky over the years when bare backing a new beau.
     
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    If i was on the pill i let them cum in me if they wanted to, if i wasnt on the pill i always made them pull out. Usually i just had them pull out to be extra careful.
     
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    I've rarely used condoms, apart from pre aids I've normally been in long term monogamous relationships.
     
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    I have never barebacked with intercourse.
    Of course, the "can I cum in you" question is always there, so far my answer has been no.
     
  6. B_46and2

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    Do you let them cum in you?
     
  7. B_Think_Kink

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    about 98% of the time I bareback.. although I think that's a term only used for anal sex and gay men...
     
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  10. Principessa

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    True, I was also incredibly lucky never to have caught anything! :cool:

    I am shocked and a bit disgusted that many of the younger generation are taking unnecessary risks. HIV has been around for their entire life. Why would you not have safe sex? :rolleyes::confused: As choices go, safe sex is quick and easy.
     
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    I know eh. I always tell myself to use protection.. and it just never happens.
     
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    i did, and caught chlamydia from a guy that was a one night stand. what made the problem even worse was that i had to call all the partners i'd had in a certain number of months-- including some very close friends and other people who i never wanted to speak to again. that sucked. since then i've used condoms unless i was in a relationship where we were monogamous and disease-free.
     
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    Bareback is just a gay term. Its never used in straight circles.
     
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    I've used it in straight circles.
     
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    Bareback is bareback, gay,bi or straight, it means no condom! Its not for me, i like myself to much.:biggrin1:
     
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    I thought so, thanks :)
     
  17. snoozan

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    I've heard it used gay, straight, or in bi circles. Maybe it's a regional thing. Good old wiki says it's both as well.

    Bareback (sex) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
     
  18. xemnasfury21

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    There was a condom advert over here that showed two ends to the same situation where some ugly teen had borrowed a condom and was asked to give it back.

    Both times he had had sex but in the version where he hadnt used it, he was proud and his friend said "You did it bareback!?!?!" before being angry him for being stupid, and you saw the girl crying.

    The other version if you cared was the friends being all "nice one" because he had used it and the girl was all *swoon* at home.
     
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    Same here. Ive never had sex without a condom. I have no problem with him talking in off and cumming on me but no cumming in me. I dont really have any interest in any guy who is dumb enough to want to fuck someone without protection
     
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    FWIW me and my friends use the term bareback for straight sex without a condom.
     
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